The personal hell of an individual transmits to everyone around them wherever they go & turns into a sort of collective hell.
Same is true with someone’s personal heaven , which creates collective heaven for everyone’s reality around them.
The awakening of one person acts like a match stick that lights all matchsticks around it, triggering a domino effect.
One man can change the world.
Most people build for one person. Elon Musk builds for civilization.
He asks: What does humanity need to survive? Then he attacks the bottleneck—relentlessly.
Intelligent people struggle with addiction. Their minds need more. They have obsessions nobody around them shares. Philosophy. Astronomy. Dostoevsky. Jazz. Quantum physics. Things they know deeply. Things they've gone so deep into that anything else feel like small talk. And small talk feels like suffocation. So... they drink. Work until 2 am. Doomscroll until they're numb. Because there is a gap. A gap between who you are and the conversations available to you. And it's one of the loneliest places a person can live.
Men admire in women masculine virtues (self-accountability, logic, composure, self-command) expressed through feminine embodiment - not as an imitation of man, but as a refinement of character.
Women admire in men feminine virtues (empathy, tenderness, intuition, receptivity) expressed through masculine embodiment - not as softness without toughness, but as completeness.
So each sex seeks the best of its own principle integrated in the opposite, their natural polarity preserved but elevated.
Men and women are thus seeking the best of themselves in their opposite in stable contrast - a marriage within so there can be a marriage between - recursive union - what beauty!