Did y’all know Drake’s find your love was originally for Rihanna… Written by Kanye West, Rih & No I.D (Kanye’s earliest mentors) Drake heard Rihanna’s version that she recorded & wanted it for himself so he got it.
At Cornell, scientists handed people a shirt they found embarrassing, sent them into a room of strangers, and asked how many noticed. The wearers were sure half the room had clocked it. The real number was a quarter. We think we take up far more room in other people's heads than we actually do.
The same blind spot shows up in how much credit we hand ourselves. Ask a husband and wife what share of the housework each one does, then add the two answers together. You land way past 100% every time, because both are quietly certain they do more than half. Michael Ross, a psychologist, first measured this in 1979, and it keeps repeating on teams and in offices everywhere.
So part of what this post is feeling is just true. The job you do, the load you swear only you can carry, someone else can usually pick it up, and the place keeps running. That stings, but it is mostly your own inflated estimate getting corrected.
The word "replaceable" quietly carries a second meaning, and the second one is where people get hurt. The sociologist Morris Rosenberg gave it a name decades ago: mattering. It has little to do with being good at a task, and everything to do with whether real people lean on you and would notice a hole if you vanished. You can get swapped out at work on Monday and still be the first person a friend calls at 2am when life falls apart. We fuse the two into one. They were never the same.
Mixing them up is what does the real damage. Gordon Flett, a psychologist at York University, studies the opposite feeling: being invisible, like you matter to no one. When researchers ran software across more than 500,000 posts on an online forum for people in crisis, that feeling showed up in nearly 70% of them. Research published in 2025 ties it straight to depression. This is the version worth fearing, and it has nothing to do with whether your job could be covered.
The same thought can also set you free instead of flattening you. In studies of around 2,000 people, scientists at Berkeley found that feeling small, the way you do under huge trees or open sky, made people more generous with strangers and more honest in tests, and it softened their entitlement. Shrinking your own importance pulled them toward people, not away. So yes, you are replaceable at what you do, and also irreplaceable to the few people who would feel the room go quiet without you. Only one of those is worth a single sleepless night.
A man spends 50 years teaching at MIT.
He knows his time is running out.
So he records one last lecture — everything he knows, distilled into a single hour.
He died 5 months later.
This is that lecture.
The most important hour you'll watch this week. 👇
Bookmark it for later
Lenfatik drenaj egzersizi olarak bilinen bu hareket, lenf akışını hızlandırırken tüm vücutta kan dolaşımını artırıyor.
Üstelik tek bir egzersizle neredeyse tüm kas gruplarını aktif şekilde çalıştırıyor.
Birçok uzmana göre; enerji, dolaşım ve hareket kabiliyeti açısından dünyanın en etkili egzersizlerinden biri olabilir… 👇
Stumbled upon another masterpiece.
“Chill for what…who is this pirate?!”
Entire account is dedicated to taking these type of clips and making them pirate themed, unreal.
If Kendrick Lamar made ICEMAN...
(Full mashup album)
01. FIREMAN INTRO - 0:00
02. wacced out murals x Make Them Cry - 1:11
03. DNA. x Janice STFU & Dust - 6:02
04. Silent Hill x Whisper My Name - 9:22
05. euphoria x Ran To Atlanta - 12:40
06. family ties x Shabang, Dust & National Treasures - 17:56
07. The Heart Part 2 x Make Them Pay - 22:31
08. United In Grief x Burning Bridges - 26:47
09. 30 For 30 x B's On The Table - 30:58
10. range brothers x What Did I Miss? - 35:13
11. untitled 02 | 06.23.2014. x Plot Twist - 39:10
12. squabble up x 2 Hard 4 The Radio - 43:12
13. Kush & Corinthians x Make Them Remember - 45:45
14. gnx x Little Birdie - 51:08
15. Hol' Up x Don’t Worry - 53:23
16. Faith x Firm Friends - 56:10
17. FEEL. x Make Them Know - 1:00:57
DRAKE mentions washed-up rapper SIR MICHAEL ROCKS on new album ICEMAN:
“Yeah coolest kid out baby word to Chuck Inglish but I don’t really fuck with that other nigga that he sing with.”
Coincidental or planned?
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