Lord, if I have to wait, teach me to wait without losing my peace. If I have to let go, teach me to let go without losing my faith. And if I have to begin again, remind me that You’re still with me.
Before you give your time, energy and emotional commitment to a man, make sure you’ve built a life that makes you happy on your own. Focus on your goals, your career, your friendships, your hobbies, your passions and the dreams you want to turn into reality. Have something of your own that gives you purpose, fulfilment and a sense of identity. Never make a relationship the centre of your world before you’ve had the chance to build a world of your own. Love should add to the life you’re creating, not become the only thing you have. Don’t put your ambitions on hold, lose touch with your friends or abandon the things that make you who you are just to make room for someone else. Build a life you love first. That way, when you choose to share it with someone, you’re choosing him because you want him in your life, not because you need him to give your life meaning.
I finally figured it out. The problem is me.
I enter people's lives with an energy, a loyalty, a love, and a peace they've never had. I disrupt their comfort zone built on chaos. They're not used to what's real; they're addicted to dysfunction.
My presence demands growth and they're not ready for it.
Give yourself something to hold on to when life feels uncertain. Remind yourself that this isn't where your story ends. There are still places to go, people to meet, opportunities to experience, and versions of yourself you haven't met yet.
I think the hardest part of adulting is that you have to keep going, no matter what you’re dealing with, how you feel or what life throws at you. Even on the days when you have nothing left to give, life goes on and somehow, you have to keep up.
Rumor has it, the woman reading this is walking into a lifetime of abundance, soft living, answered prayers, unimaginable wealth, and unforgettable moments.🤍✨