@minhafatimah Someone who divorces without a valid reason wont smell the fragrance of paradise. Boredom, aging or ingratitude are not valid reasons. Marriage shouldn't be mu'tah in disguise.
Abuse and shirking of rights while capable are valid reasons, good people don't commit these.
@Cenk_da1 Your coworker is a literal kaffir and you listen to his diagnosis about Muslim women, no questions asked? No agenda?
"When you hear a man say, 'The people are ruined,' he himself is the most ruined of them all."
The vast supermajority of Muslim women are chaste and practicing.
@DOLLSPIN3@Split_Peach I am talking about human nature. Never does it say that its discouraged to marry someone who struggled with a drug addiction, but many normal people don't want to build a household with people with low self-control and myopia. They are not demanding perfection, just the norm.
@DOLLSPIN3@Split_Peach They're not ostracised for it, these people are also super rare. They are only warned what they're getting into. Deception in marriage is also haram and a major violation of their rights. If the zani compares them to others/ingratitude, they will answer for it on Judgement Day.
@DOLLSPIN3@Split_Peach You can ask many practicing Muslims, men and women, what their dealbreaker in marriage is and almost all of them would agree with past relationships/indecent history. Why? Only Allah can tell if they truly repented, they cannot trust it from their mouth or verify it themself.
@DOLLSPIN3@Split_Peach I'm sorry to be the first to break the news. But people definitely value exclusivity, safety and purity in a spouse if they themself have never fallen into the most obscene sins in Islam. It shows self-constraint and strong imaan which are must haves in a marriage.
@BigPalixxx Allah leaves whoever He wills to stray and guides whoever He wills.
It is sad but hijab is much more than just clothes. This holds for men and women. May she be guided or replaced by better Muslims.
@FinBogasson11 He was celebrating people that were killed in much more brutal ways. This is just his divine punishment in this life. You're captured if you can't see the irony in his death.
@DOLLSPIN3@Split_Peach It's in the fitrah of people to not want to marry a maxipad if you're looking for a husband or town bicycle if you want a wife, no matter how sorry they were about it.
Past may be between you and Allah but not HPV, herpes, baggage etc.