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"what are your hobbies:
-UNGODLY PATTERN RECOGNITION
-AGGRESSIVE ACTIVE QUESTIONING
-SILENT OBSERVATION
-REAL TIME THEORY BUILDING
-BEHAVORIAL ANALYSIS
-MICRO EXPRESSION DECODING
-POST CONVERSATION AUTOPSY"
@TheDarkDuchesss@NOT____1111ff "Oh hey I can finally be independent and stand on my own!" I said innocently as life threw me feet first into the metaphorical wood chipper
Women smelled a shirt worn by their romantic partner, a stranger, or no one.
Their partner’s scent reduced perceived stress.
A stranger’s scent increased cortisol.
Many people who are 18-22 I have noticed pathologically minimize themselves and dehumanize themselves in a way that is honestly shocking and it's something nobody ever seems to point to directly, only the expressed symptoms
What caused this?
“The hare had died tortured by anxious hopes of salvation, imagining it could still escape when it was already caught, just like so many human beings."
A lab at Michigan put people in a brain scanner, burned their arms with a hot probe, and then showed them photos of their ex. The scans came back almost identical, an 88% match. That was 40 people who'd all been through breakups they didn't want, and it proved what anyone who's been left already knows in their body: the pain is physical. Your brain runs heartbreak through the same wiring it uses for a burn.
The tweet says "you have to stop liking them," like there is a switch somewhere you flip and it stops. There isn't one.
Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist at Rutgers, scanned 15 people who'd recently been dumped. Two months later, every one of them was still spending over 85% of their waking hours thinking about the person who left. When Fisher showed them a photo of whoever dumped them, the part of the brain that produces dopamine (your "I want more of this" chemical) and the craving center both fired. Same circuits as cocaine.
Fisher calls what happens next "frustration attraction." When your brain expects a reward and the reward gets yanked away, dopamine doesn't calm down. It spikes. Same wiring that makes a gambler throw more money at a losing hand makes a heartbroken person obsess harder. Evolution did this on purpose. Losing a mate meant your genes died with you, so the brain learned to cling harder when it should have been letting go.
Fisher's argument: love is a drive, not a feeling. Same category as hunger and thirst, right next door in the brain. You can't talk yourself out of being hungry. You can white-knuckle it, but the craving doesn't leave because you told it to.
After a breakup, cortisol (your body's alarm bell) floods in and can stay high for months. Serotonin, which keeps your mood stable and stops your thoughts from looping, drops. An Italian study in the late '90s found that people who were madly in love had serotonin levels that looked like people with OCD. When someone loves you back, that obsession reads as devotion. When they don't, it is a loop you can't think your way out of.
Researchers at the University of Kentucky found that taking Tylenol every day for three weeks made people feel less social pain. Brain scans backed it up. The same pill that fixes a headache can take the edge off a breakup, because your brain runs both kinds of pain through the same hardware.
Full recovery takes about 18 to 24 months, going by Fisher's numbers. That is how long the dopamine system needs to stop searching for someone who is gone and to build a new version of normal without them in it.
You don't "decide" to get over someone the way you decide to quit a job or sell a car. You sit there and wait for a chemical withdrawal to run its course while your own brain fights you, keeps firing, keeps reaching for a fix that is not coming. And when the weight lifts one day and you go a whole afternoon without thinking about them, that is just chemistry. A very old, very blind piece of biological machinery, finally running out of fuel.
Saying "I love you" and discussing a future with your partner, then abruptly leaving their life, is one of the cruelest things you can do to another human being.
And no, your childhood trauma doesn't justify blindsiding someone who trusted you.
Life feels exceptionally cruel when success rate of ending it correlated with higher chance of disability.
Just make suicide pods legal. Thats genuinely more merciful than forcing a soul to choose between hanging brain damage or jumpers paralyzed body