Can we become doubt-free? No. There will undoubtedly always be doubts. But we can minimize them through healthy communication and a strong set of values.
@Markus_Soeder Toll, wenn Ausbildungen vom Staat übernommen werden oder bezahlbar werden. Aber hier wird wohl vergessen, dass man während der Ausbildung im Studium kein Geld verdient und ebenfalls Schulden aufbaut.
If you find it hard to ask for closeness, a chat, time together, or more security, make it a habit to phrase your question as a need. " I have the need to talk to you about XY." or "I have the need to spend more time with you."
The sentence: „But which partner do you love most?“, is a (mostly unaware) attempt by monogamous people to fit polyamorous relationships into monogamous structures.
The one solution that works for every relationship doesn't exist. It's important to share your feelings and fears so that nobody is left behind. Further, it's essential to open up your relationship together as a team. Otherwise, chances are high that you will drift apart quickly.
One of the most frequent problems when opening up a relationship is a different pace. While one partner is taking it slow, the other one could go out on a date every night.