The reason it’s important to keep talking about abandoning her is that, without this language, she will have a baby with you behind your back.
They are that evil.
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If she pulls away her anxiety is too high.
Anxiety is when the astral body loosens from the physical too rapidly.
(GA 143)
Dating triggers:
•vulnerability
•anticipation
•fear of judgment
•excitement
•self-consciousness
These all cause the astral body to surge, making the person feel:
•shaky
•scattered
•over-aware
•tense
•emotionally exposed
1) Help her feel “grounded” so her astral body can settle back into harmony with the physical.
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The strongest healer of the soul is the atmosphere of another person.
(GA 143)
You calm her by the way your soul is.
Being warm in your tone, demeanor, and eyes quiets her astral agitation.
Speaking slowly, not rushing, letting pauses exist — he says rhythm orders the soul.
The astral body resonates with the breathing of the other person.
If your breathing is calm,
her anxiety automatically drops.
Do NOT flood her with your own intensity
Projecting too much willpower overwhelms the astral body of women.
The man’s astral body is outward-working; the woman’s is inward-felt.
(GA 93)
Pushy energy spikes her anxiety.
(Time and place for that)
Quiet, steady presence dissolves it.
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Create moral atmosphere after you get her alone with you, not rape vibes immediately.
The moral mood in another person’s presence is the greatest healer of the nervous system.
(GA 161)
She should feel no pressure
(romantic, sexual, emotional)
coming from you.
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The feminine soul perceives the unspoken.
(GA 94)
So she picks up:
•your intentions
•your nerves
•your fantasies
•your insecurity
•your impatience
Even if you hide it.
Thus, the best way to lower her anxiety is to clean your inner space.
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You can only calm another’s astral body to the degree your own is calm.
(GA 266)
Your soul becomes the “weather” she feels.
Approach another human soul with reverence,
and her anxiety will depart.
(GA 95)
None of the problems & stress you have now will matter in a year. Snap out of & deattach it’s all just a theatre around you. Focus on your inputs only.
Discipline is bs and won’t work without FEELING right. It’ll make you loop up and down.
It's about reactions. How would the billionaire self react to your present moment?
Without shifting identity you will still feel like a loser even when ticking the checkboxes