Be thankful that any encounters with trickery and other forms of malevolence have not left you corrupted, contaminated, damaged, paranoid or broken, only wiser and more discerning. This is a good thing.
Sometimes you have to choose between peace and certain people. I struggled with this in the past but at this point in my life, the choice is obvious. On some level you always know.
When you’re not in an ego battle with someone it’s easy to see when they have an addiction to needing to “win” and to just observe and bow out gracefully.
Knowing this is the internal pattern they are battling and are bound to repeat, it may allow you to have compassion.
People may feel judged that you need space and don’t want to be around them. It’s like I’m actually not even thinking about you. That’s the whole point of me taking space. To mind my business and focus on myself. I understand abandonment triggers but sometimes it’s not about you
If you are someone who prefers solitude, stop thinking you need to make excuses or that something needs to be wrong before you prioritize taking space for yourself. Establish this as just a part of what nourishes and feeds your soul and embrace the hermit lifestyle.
Clear thoughts or stories that say you should have handled a certain situation already or you should have taken care of something a long time ago.
You’re doing what’s right for you now because you like it and want it not it because you “should”. That means your energy is aligned
We need to talk more about how often people think someone is psychic attacking them when it’s really just their own negative energy they have been projecting coming back home to them.
Leave certain matters that may feel unfinished at the altar. Give some to the ocean, the fire or even a volcano
Leave matters that feel unfair or unjust to the divine law of justice, known as karma.
You have other things calling you.