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@bye_anj Yeah, I went through something very similar recently. The funny part is, they don't even realize they're doing it. They create a narrative in which they are the almighty victim, and they had no agency within that scenario.
@paddedmowcat@Loserbitch91 Yeah that's really way over the line for me. I'm not willing to make someone financially unstable, I have too much financial anxiety myself.
@ControlledSlave This is a really hot idea! I know we don't know each other, but if you ever want to reach out and talk, I'd be interested in helping to develop this curriculum.
@VladisWife89 I didn't read it as Ciel being smarter than the demon. I read it as Ciel getting the best outcome he could have hoped for. Like, the house always wins, Ciel just got a better deal than most.
@canidsAbstract Jump down my throat. They'd be aggressively defensive, or they'd become completely quiet, be very tense, and raise their voice the next time they spoke. That's the kind of conflict avoidance I just can't stand.
@canidsAbstract Side note, my ex roommate straddled both sides of this coin. He'd never come to me with conflict, despite me going out of my way to try and be nice and kind and approachable.
Then when I came to him with conflict, despite me being sooth and calm and reassuring, they'd always
@canidsAbstract Along those same lines, and I'm saying this is someone who has been burned by people pleasers, we have to be aware of the message we're sending with our reactions. If a people pleaser comes to me and tries to resolve something, and I shout at them, obviously they won't come back.
@canidsAbstract Yeah that makes total sense. And when I have friends who communicate and tell me they have a fawn response on a regular basis, I go out of my way to try and double check with them and such. The communication is the important part, and taking ownership of what you communicated.
@GlitteryRebel@shelleddiva suddenly I was Satan incarnate. Even when I apologized for making him uncomfortable, despite it being his choice to be uncomfortable.
@GlitteryRebel@shelleddiva I had a big falling out with a close friend of mine recently, and this was a major point of contention. He'd repeatedly tell me things, and then later on reveal he'd just been trying to please me. When I told him it was unintentional dishonesty and makes it hard to trust him
@Erratic_Erotic I had this game idea as a kid once where every time your character died, they were progressively infantilized and handicapped, until eventually even the weakest enemies treated you like a laughingstock.
@PlaysClo I'm not certain what the message of your tweet is intended to be. Could you clarify? I've been told I'm a people pleaser in the past and honestly I like to get a variety of opinions so that I can understand myself better.
@Casketgirl88@turningmystile I remember telling them I needed distance, after they had been distant from me for months. You'd have thought I was Satan.
@everstronghrts@turningmystile Or even better, they keep the record, and legitimately just drop bits and crumbs over time to make you feel like shit and to validate their narrative that they are just a victim and you are just a bad person.
Never dating a conflict avoidant person again, holy shit.