That Fat Trans Guy

Angry trans guy. Disabled. Queer. Fat. Perpetual student. Not here for cis bullshit. He/him.

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Tybalt is the best at cuddles 🥰 @ Carmichael, California https://t.co/8WWJKsmlQC

[That Fat Trans Guy @Redwyn_Storm]

@ryal_theamazing How can I be sure you didn't steal my name?!

[That Fat Trans Guy @Redwyn_Storm]

If you don't regularly use alcohol wipes, stop buying them! I self inject and need them. Many of us rely on alcohol and you assholes are buying up every box/bottle because your selfish and don't think about the people who will actually suffer because your actions. Just stop!

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@urban_monstrum I can't believe neither you nor your husband thought it was important to tell me about this! I'm gonna need to know more!

[That Fat Trans Guy @Redwyn_Storm]

@BernieSanders Does Medicare for all include dental care for all? Or should I expect to continue to live with excruciating pain? Because the dental work I need is more expensive than the amount of money/assets I'm allowed to have as an SSI recipient.

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I've used up all of my spoons for 2020 already and I'm dipping into 2021 now.

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New Years Eve and still in the hospital with my mom ... Not really they way I wanted 2020 to start but at least it's not in the ICU I guess.

[That Fat Trans Guy @Redwyn_Storm]

The worse my body gets, the less friendly the world becomes to it.

The worse my mental health gets, the less friendly the world becomes to it.

I just want a comfortable chair and to not be told how to feel my own emotions.

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I've been out as #trans for 20 years, there's no reason for my family to still be struggling with my pronouns. And yet, I have been #misgendered more times this week than in the previous 5 years.

#TransProblems

[That Fat Trans Guy @Redwyn_Storm]

@urban_monstrum I feel this in my soul. I know how frustrating it is to have a new set of limits and I'm sorry you are dealing with it. When I get home we can be broken together and make Max take care of us 😂

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My mom has finally been extubated. Today she said:

"your a pain in the butt"
"oh shut up!"
"yeah right" in response to I love you.
"I have to pee pee"
"My Butt hurts"
"I love you and you're fat belly"

Oh, and she burped in my face.
She is truly my favorite human ever!

[That Fat Trans Guy @Redwyn_Storm]

Yesterday I was told that I should "just find a dude that wants to be a woman" because it would work out really well since I "used to be a girl" and we could also have "good sex" because our "parts" would work together.

I can't even begin to address all the issues with that.

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@bennessb I have anxiety because I take anti-anxiety meds when I have a panic attack.

And my elbows hurt because I don't wear the right shoes apparently.

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I really never thought I'd be sitting alone in the ICU with my mom in a bed next to me. I assumed my family would care enough about this incredible woman to be here for her like she always is for us. I never thought it would just be me here.

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@MisteeShelton @lf092313 Damn! She's gonna be living it up! That's like 2-3 gallons of gas! Think of all the travel possibilities!

That kind of "raise" is truly offensive. How do they expect people to survive?

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I'd like to thank #ssdi for the generous $6/mo raise. I can finally afford to live a life of luxury! I mean, a WHOLE $6! I'm rich!

Has anyone else been blessed with such great wealth? What will you do with your $6? The possibilities are limitless!

#DisabledTwitter

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For the few friends who use Twitter to keep track of me. I may be mostly absent in the coming days. Last night my mom's kidneys started failing. She's been hospitalized and things are bad. I'm heading south to see her. I'm really scared and overwhelmed. Send love please!

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@bennessb I didn't expect to lose the ability to form new meaningful relationships. Every year my friends get fewer. No one new wants to connect, and I scare off or push away the few who do. Being alone is great but loneliness is hard. And chronic illness is painfully lonely.

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My back is killing me, but my cat gets the heating pad because I think he might be cold. I'm not sure if that says how much I love my cat or how little I care about myself...

[I’m doing SCIENCE and I’m still alive 🎂 @PhDSuccessories]

@bennessb You’ve heard of the game Life. Well, let me introduce you to STRIFE. Watch everyone else in your peer group meet life milestones and make lots of money while you’re still unmarried and living with roommates at 37 because you were born with a shitty set of genes

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Is it some kind of law that once you reach a certain age you have to talk down to people younger than you?