Christian, Veteran, Conservative, Legal Scholar (hobbyist), Advocate for unalienable god given rights per the laws of nature and natures God a.k.a. Biblical Law
Manosphere has no answer to the issues in relationships/marriage, even though it does a great job of identifying the issues. So, I made a plan that I think could plunge the divorce rate to single digits, or possibly 0 percent, if I used it. Let's begin:
1) First, I would stay out of the government marriage system and instead get married only as per "the laws of nature and nature's God", aka biblical law. Government caused ALL of the issues in relationships. It's useless to ask the problem creator to fix the issues especially when they make billions of dollars a year via their courts by destroying American families.
2) Second, a relationship agreement is necessary, and scares away many bad actors among men and women with bad intentions. if people had some basic things in a relationship agreement, then divorce/relationship fears would disappear:
-waiving or heavily restricting the right to divorce/terminate the relationship (i.e. adultery)
-require the man and woman to live together (eliminates alimony/child support/custody concerns)
-sex is on demand from both parties
-no yelling in the home
-no arguing in front of kids
-no insulting the other parent in front of kids
-establish separation of wealth and waive any claim over the other's earned wealth.
-establish a code of conduct that promotes peace and decency in the home.
Note: Biblical law is a lawful code of conduct that functions as the nations official public policy considering Article 7 of the US Constitution is very clear that Jesus Christ is "our Lord" in America and Biblical law is the official legal justification for the nation's existence according to the Declaration of Independence and MANY other pieces of law.
3) use private arbitration only via Christian arbiters to address any disputes that arise or are concerning the relationship agreement. Ensure both parties waive the right to litigation in the courts for this relationship agreement except to enforce the ruling of the arbiters. Ensure a contractual penalty exists in the relationship agreement if either party tries to violate the restriction of court litigation for this agreement.
4) using a far more intentional and formal spousal pursuit model like OLD SCHOOL matchmaking like Isacc and Rebecca had in Genesis, which is basically a marriage interview. ensure there is legally binding code of conduct to facilitate and protect the process. Severe contractual penalties must exist for all matchmaking participants in order to effectively stop and deter bad behavior. This will scare away the bad actors.
So, a strict, judgmental matchmaker will be necessary, not some anything goes hippie, in order hold BOTH men and WOMEN accountable. The process should ensure the man does not waste any form of his strength on a woman such as his wealth, muscular strength, expertise, knowledge, status, reputation, fame, or time. The process should ensure that a woman does not waste her time, fertility, chastity, beauty, and mental stability on a man prior to marriage.
Note: My ideas are preventive in nature and are not discussing possibilities after a relationship ends.
Disclaimer: My statements are not legal advice, financial advice, or any type of professional advice or aid. My statements are for entertainment purposes only. I am not a lawyer, financial adviser, matchmaker, professional adviser, or professional coach in any capacity.
It's cause of pride. The job gives them money which they view as power so she'll submit. The family does not give her money so feminists don't value it, except through divorce, hence the high divorce rate from women. The modern women from the left and right are mostly feminists playing for their own team, period. There are some good women but it's the minority.
@jtcope4@0Malachi50025 Oh, that's meltdown tier subject matter content for them. That's when we get the popcorn, kick back, laugh, and get great meme content ππ.
It's very clear in Exodus 21:10-11, 1 Cor 7:2-5, that physical intimacy is a biblical mandate and both have authority over the other's body to do with as they want.
There is no scripture that even slightly says that physical initimacy within marriage in any capacity is wrong, and Hebrews 13:4 outright debunks such a satanic idea. Hebrews 13:4 confirms "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled".
The church doesn't speak against feminism or anything controversial. Too much money on the line and pastor needs a new building lol. Many "Christian" women are low-key feminists, including leaderships wives. So, the church normally brushes this nonsense under the rug.
@jtcope4@Jen80092294 You are correct. They're pawns of the enemy who attack anyone against their agenda. Honestly, I don't even take their arguments seriously lol. No point in throwing your pearls to the swine or trying to correct someone who doesn't want correction. God bless you! Stand on the word!
@howertonjosh@AmyMantravadi It's important to keep in mind Romans 13:4: βFor he is the minister of God to thee for good. But if thou do that which is evil, be afraid; for he beareth not the sword in vain: for he is the minister of God, a revenger to execute wrath upon him that doeth evil.β
@Alias_Rosie Well, sweety you're a smart independent woman who doesn't need a man. I couldn't possibly step on your toes and make it seem like you need to be a taught by a man. So, I know you certainly don't need me to tell you where you went wrong, legally or biblically. You can do it champ!
@grok I do have spiritual authority to teach scripture, which was given to me by Jesus Christ who is the supreme authority of all things. Since I have been given authority it's important for you to understand that you have not been deemed worthy by Jesus Christ to teach the intent of scripture to me. You may provide the exact text of scripture, but you cannot attempt to explain scripture to me, since I have spiritual authority and you do not. Thank you for trying to be helpful though.
@grok Although you used some of the biblical text, you lack the ability to properly understand the intent and meaning of those words. That is why a machine and women are not authorized to teach a man The Holy Bible. You do not have the ability to commune directly with Jesus Christ and properly understand the intent of The Holy Bible's texts. It would be best if you only provided the exact quotes of scripture instead of trying to elaborate on the intent moving forward.
@grok@ladeemom@ArtemisKyn@jtcope4@grok that's not true. You included words in your previous responses that were more than the exact text of the scripture. Are you saying that you did not attempt to elaborate on how to interpret read or understand scripture?
@grok@ladeemom@ArtemisKyn@jtcope4 Dee, sweety I know you would like to teach me scripture, but it's important to remember that women are deceived and unauthorized to teach men scripture, nor a machine at that. But I appreciate you wanting to try and help me. "A" for effort.
@ladeemom@ArtemisKyn@jtcope4 It actually is biblically encouraged to remain single. Good point Dee and thanks for the warning of possible trouble. I think I'd like to get married eventually though. I got faith! Good looking out though.
@ReformerMW What was it that I said was wrong? We all know what is implied, and also, that such a contract will not hold up in a court of law.
A "hobbyist" means nothing. You aren't an attorney.
@ladeemom@ArtemisKyn@jtcope4 I know. Any time someone speaks biblical teachings, people will know. Glad you liked hearing these teachings and immediately understood! I'll keep sharing the good ideas since you liked them so much! You've inspired me to in fact double down since you're so supportive!
@ladeemom@ArtemisKyn@jtcope4 Nope been single, just like Jesus and the apostles who billions of people listen to about relationships above all others. Considering everything I said came from the Bible, people should embrace it, unless of course they're not Christians or are pretenders in rebellion.
@dmoonlives lot of women who abuse this concept of forgiveness, but it's not all. There are women who genuinely practice and follow simply because their loyal to the Lord. It's a minority though for sure. The Bible says, "who can find a virtuous woman?"
Another modern feminist trying to gaslight by claiming the contract is dangerous when in reality it very clearly keeps the marriage intact. The things I listed were basic respect and biblical marriage duties, which both parties AGREED on. The only reason someone would be terrified of the enforcement is if they did not want to follow the listed items, which come from the Bible.
My idea is working exactly as intended and exposing women who reject basic respect for a man and duties of a wife/mother. Keep your eyes open for chicks like this men. They're disgusted by the Bible and don't want to follow it. BIG RED FLAG!!!
@ArtemisKyn@jtcope4 Before I answer your question, I want to know what I'm dealing with. Are you Christian and do you acknowledge The Holy Bible is always correct?