@MatthewCoast Mmmm….crazy is not a feeling.
You can’t MAKE and person think an embrace or endorse a thought unless they choose to do so.
The neurology of the brain just doesn’t work that way.
@vera1784869 Excellent point, Vera
I recommend a conversation that goes something like this:
“I’m worried you may forget.
How can I help you remember in a way that works for both of us?”
“practicing for divorce” or strategizing about divorce, is MAKING ROOM for relationship FAILURE.
Get rid of the exit signs 🪧
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@MatthewCoast As a 30+ year veteran clinician I’ve heard this thousands of times.
Not necessarily true.
The FIRST or most FREQUENT thought spoken is often NOT the deepest belief held.
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