I'm honestly done opening to people it never goes any further and I always end up getting hurt. No one deserves to know anything about me unless they truly want to be in my life. I can't keep going through this with every other person I want to get to know.
If I'm being honest going to a bar doesn't sound fun to me. I would rather play laser tag, go hiking, festivals, road trips, museums, do star gazing, go karts, go to thrift stores, camping, and watching the sunrise that sounds like fun to me.