@elinestark@Mellie981319 He failed yet here you are trying to set him up with your other friend? You dont even believe your own insult.
Btw, who initiated his divorce? The stats show there's a 25% chance it was his fault, and a 75% chance she changed her emotions and felt like a divorce.
Women most certainly have evolved to be hypergamous by nature (that's the word you need to educate yourself on). You should ask your favorite AI model about it.
Based off your profile, I know how you turned out this way. The world is covered in 30+ year old girlbosses who were conditioned into thinking her career is what's most important. Now you're at the tail of your fertility and trying to understand why men are not interested in you or your career. Instead of learning biology, you turned to hating men. It's a deflection mechanism designed to protect your ego. This is very common today. You're not alone nor unique in this situation. And I wish you well.
You poor thing.
Men are valued on ability to provide and protect
Women are valued on fertility and nurturing behavior
A 45yr old man is at or near his peak value
Can have more kids whenever he wants
A 40yr old single mom spent her value poorly
Can't have any more shared offspring
They are not the same.
Men and women are not the same.
And they operate on polarized opposite metrics.
@elinestark@Mellie981319 You poor thing.
Men are valued on ability to provide and protect
Women are valued on fertility and nurturing behavior
A 45yr old man is at or near his peak value.
A 40yr old single mom spent her value poorly.
They are not the same.
Men and women are not the same.
@dadstartingover Those men are a minority. You're speaking to the majority here of gray divorce and only focusing on the niche subsection within. Which is fine, just make that more clear with your intro. The overwhelming majority of older men after divorce are more than pleased to be rid of her.
@SdadsasaA189@FICMBondTrader It's peak market because he can provide and protect that that point - the main male metric.
Your second point is correct. A maraige contract is between the man and the state as an intermediary between him and his wife. The contract is with you and the government.
@MandiMagdalane@thegenesisbl0ck You're here debating that men dont want sex more often and intensely than women. You're not living on planet earth. You're probably a anarchist furry.
@MandiMagdalane@thegenesisbl0ck The genders are not the same. You are low in intellect and high in emotion. You are the sensitive flowers of our DNC party and we're done catering to your niche fetishes.
@MandiMagdalane@thegenesisbl0ck Yes men naturally try to initiate sex and want sex more often than women. That's literally nature. And it's a woman's choice to select the male who she feels comfortable with. Men who violate that are criminals.
@MandiMagdalane@thegenesisbl0ck I'm happy to take any insults or arguments, but I actually dont think you understand my words here.
"Women gatekeep sex" means that they're always the ones in control of who they have sex with. It's never the man who's allowed to decide - we would call that rape.
Make sense?