My chat is once you decide to stay when he's cheated on you, you're no longer the victim you're the person who showed him you value him and the relationship more than you value your peace and sanity. Cheating is not a mistake it's a choice and so is staying.
STOP interrupting your friend(s) peace by sending them screenshots or volunteering negative information about a situation that they are trying to overcome or ignore.
@Joyoky1 Sometimes the people we love the most leave the deepest lessons.
The goal isn't to stop loving; it's to learn to love wisely while protecting your peace, boundaries, and self-respect.
I want Black women to experience love that doesn’t require suffering to prove its worth, and a love that doesn’t require them to be strong all the time. 🥹
@NoFilterSkin I’d rather live alone than do 50/50 with a man. They eat more! They consume every home resource more. Any man that talks about 50/50 is a bum
People talk about 50/50.
But motherhood was never 50/50.
Pregnancy wasn't 50/50.
Birth wasn't 50/50.
Breastfeeding wasn't 50/50.
The mental load wasn't 50/50.
Postpartum recovery wasn't 50/50.
The sleepless nights weren't 50/50.
The physical changes weren't 50/50.
By the time the bill arrived,
the woman already paid.
Let your children see you have fun. Sprinkle it in whenever you can; Sing while you're stuck in traffic, dance when you're cleaning the kitchen and laugh at your own mistakes. Fun doesn't have to be reserved for weekends & vacation. Show your children how to enjoy life even in the mundane routines; they'll watch, learn and do the same.
After giving birth, a woman's internal wounds take six months to heal, 12 months for physical recovery, two years for hormonal balance, and up to five years to rediscover her identity. Relationships frequently fail during this time due to a lack of understanding. Be kind and patient with new mothers; they are facing more challenges than it appears.