2yrs ago a friend told me to "keep feminism off the table if I want a man". I told her feminism is one of the first things a man who wants to date me will know about me.
If knowing my rights scares him off, then please do just that-. Scurry away into obscure darkness.
@adamugarba@CrowweApp Go to Crowwe and make this announcement let's see who will notice.
You're like those haters who hate you so much they are obsessed. You hate twitter so much you can't even deactivate your account
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@eseoraka @OritsesanT @MissAppenine You don't need to use a hose words, you implied it when you suggested that that is what a good woman should do. A good man should learn to check himself in with a therapist
@t0nit0ne Just like the way sexists grieve women by raping and killing. When we get angry and shout, they invalidate our claims & call us angry
Stop trying to tone police people's
trauma. You may be privilege enough for it to merely be an academic discussion, for others it's their reality
@awelejude@Mochievous She worked, yet he consideredher contribution as no work at all and you want to sit on your patriarchal high horse and debate whether or not he meant what he actually said. Wow. You really should consider sticking to not debating such issues after all they are proven facts.
@confusedandokay I’ve read a lot of articles and accounts on it and guess what? Common triggers for DV from their partners were the subject of abortion, domestic labour (when she’s too tired to cook or clean or she’s no longer giving him much attention), the sex of the baby, etc.
It’s crazy how we always talk about women dying due to complications during labour/childbirth but often overlook the fact the leading cause of death in pregnant women is murder.
—by the men who impregnated them.
@Mochievous I always say that men are so used to women rendering unpaid labour such that they see it as nothing. That's why a man will boldly claim women offer nothing but egusi and sex. This is a man that'll literally starve in her absence because he doesn't know something basic as cooking
Last RT. One of the family run resorts I stayed was managed by the owner’s wife. She checked me in. Sorted out a chef, taxi and my ATV rental. Saw her everyday. Met the man only at checkout. We chatted and he mentioned his wife “doesn’t work. That’s why she is around more”
@awelejude@Mochievous AJ, men hardly appreciate it he effort women make. The story is not peculiar to him, it's wide spread. In fact. This is you downplaying the lived experience of women
@Mochievous I always say that men are so used to women rendering unpaid labour such that they see it as nothing. That's why a man will boldly claim women offer nothing but egusi and sex. This is a man that'll literally starve in her absence because he doesn't know something basic as cooking