“Why can't you just keep it private?” Interesting how heterosexuality is allowed to be public everywhere.
Marriage proposals. Weddings. Valentine's Day. Pregnancy announcements.... But two men holding hands is suddenly “forcing it on people.”
A man who is genuinely in love with you cannot be at peace while you are falling apart. That’s the clearest test. If he was the source of your pain, watched it consume you, saw the weight of it on your face, and still went to bed unbothered… he was never your safe place.
if a trans guy is gay they say hes a stupid little fujoshi who only decided to transition because of yaoi but if a trans guy is straight hes a lesbian in denial can trans men never win
A narcissist’s timeline:
Love bomb → future fake → control you → destroy you → play victim → call YOU crazy → then tell everyone they tried THEIR best.
Can we talk about how fucking exhausting it is, constantly trying to distract yourself from your own mind? not being able to have any real time to relax yourself because you’re so terrified of your own head, because it’s so mentally and physically draining
Covert narcissists have an incredibly sharp radar for people who are hurting, insecure, or lonely. They don't look for strong, heavily boundaried people to target; they look for people who are desperate to be saved because those people are the easiest to control.
I’m a firm believer that people’s actions make it clear that they have no respect or regard for you, regardless of what they say. You just gotta realize it & take it for what it is.