I found out via a Home Affairs official that Ethiopians never get deported alongside Somalis, Pakistanis, Bangladeshis … they are taken to Lindelani for a few months and then released back in to the community 🤦♀️ @HomeAffairsSA we need answers here ‼️‼️ We will be writing to parliament on this matter because what is the point of having immigration laws if they are ignored?
Here's the truth gentlemen,
being handsome doesn't keep a woman,
being honest doesn't keep a woman,
being loyal doesn't keep a woman,
treating a woman well doesn't keep a woman,
being there for her doesn't keep a woman,
caring about her doesn't keep a woman,
making an effort doesn't keep a woman,
paying attention doesn't keep a woman,
spending time with her doesn't keep a woman.
You could have the best intentions, you could have the most sincere feelings and you could be a good man and you still wouldn't be able to keep her.
so if she's not fighting for you when things get hard it's because she no longer wants to be kept by you the lesson here is don't hold on to someone who doesn't want to be kept it's not you giving up on her it's her giving up on you and it's you who shouldn't waste any more of your time know when to let go.
Women never earned the right to work.
They were tricked into it.
One man’s salary used to feed the whole family.
Now one salary can’t even pay the bills.
She trades her husband’s house for her boss’s office.
Leaves his sphere of influence to bow down to some other man’s rules all day.
A double shift, every single day. Grinding at the job, then coming home to cook, clean, and pretend she’s still a wife.
And while she’s out there playing “independent woman,” who is raising the kids?
This is the beauty of female liberation.
Another woman, some poor, low-wage third-world nanny or daycare worker getting paid pennies to watch someone else’s children.
Women’s freedom is at the price of other women’s enslavement.
So, um, @elonmusk, looks like your South African brethren are returning to SA because the "white genocide" isn't apparently as bad as Trump's economy. LOL. What fragile little snowflakes you Boers are.
I would have respect for the US govt if they were honest that they want to colonize the world, take over all oil nations, own African leaders, control commodities in Africa & have zero desire to respect so-called international law.
What disgusts me is that they lie & pretend to be good guys. They pretend to believe in democracy. They are hypocritical when others nations do what they do.
I love America & ordinary, good Americans. I hate the American govt, media & other tools used to bully & disrespect the rest of the world.
City of Tshwane submits to National Treasury Rooiwal blacklisting application to restrict Edwin Sodi and associates from conducting business with the government. @CityTshwane
From age 18-35, a man faces his hardest battles, not with the world, but with himself. This is the age where you either break cycles and rise or stay trapped in your past forever.
Sex alone won’t keep a man. Feed his soul. Respect him. Be loyal. Submit to him. Talk to him. Love him. Connect. Understand him. Everything else is just noise.
I cancelled my World Cup tickets.
The ICE may decide that I am a gang member, and I'll be locked in prison for a year with no charges, no hearing, no trial, no right to consult a lawyer, no phone call.
The US is not safe to visit.
As a man, your worldview of women will change when you realise that a woman can love you with every inch of her heart & still go ahead to marry the man who's ready to settle.
WHERE DOES VIOLENCE START???
Her: He hit me
Him: She was swearing at me, damaged my car & provoked me
Her: I was reacting to the pain he caused me by cheating
Him: I was cheating because she sometimes refuses to be intimate with me
If we are serious about lowering violence between partners, we need to verify where the violence started & what triggered it.
Physical, verbal, mental & emotional violence can be lowered if we can understand these dynamics.
Penuel for Change 🖤
Thank you to Women for Change for raising the topic of GBV in South Africa.
It's helped some of us raise our own concerns...
- The term GBV is bullshit coz it's only about adult female victims... not men ¬ children.
- Men are 5 times more likely to be murdered than women.
- 70% of children under 5 are murdered by their mothers (less than 6% by their fathers).
- 30% of children under 18 are murdered by their mothers (6% by their fathers).
- SAPS does not report on the race & gender demographics of perpetrators, fueling the propaganda.
- 50% of murdered women are killed by their lovers, but no-one wants to discuss why, so we can fix this.
- Most men are also scared of evil/dangerous men & women. Having a penis doesn't make you immune to violence nor fear.
- Emotional & verbal abuse are forms of violence. Women prefer these forms of violence.
- Men are not adequately taught how to deal with stress, societal pressure, infidelity & abuse from women.
- When women kill men, they are sold as isolated events... but when men kill women, all men get branded as potential killers.
- NGOs are funded, including by foreign agencies, to push the narratives, which cause good men to be attacked unfairly.
- There is NO femicide (targeted killing of women) in South Africa. You're 5 times less likely to be killed, if you're a woman.
- There are very few men's shelters or male assistance organizations.
- Women are prioritized when it comes to empowerment, funding & jobs.
- Culture still demands that men provide (more), in a society where men don't have access to jobs & business opportunities.
- Some children are denied access to their fathers, which messes up their development & mental health.
- False paternity, false rape accusations & false assault allegations are all extreme forms of violence.
- There is no national crisis for alcohol abuse & drugs... substances that exacerbate violence.
- This whole agenda is aimed at painting ALL Black men as monsters.
- Men don't open assault cases against women, which lopsides data.
- Men don't open sexual violation cases against women, which makes it seem like they are not violated.
- We need to treat all murders & assaults equally, and not give women special treatment. That's sexist.
Again, thank you to Women for Change for raising this topic, so that some of us can also share our views 🙏🏽❤️
Deep down, you already know it, you’re meant for greatness. Your life isn’t just for you; it’s meant to touch, inspire and change the people around you.