A healthy relationship will test you more than a toxic one, because it won’t let you run. It holds up a mirror and says: show up, communicate, grow. That’s why real love scares people more than chaos ever could
I can admit i’m not always easy to love. Life came at me hard , I get triggered fast, I shut down sometimes, and I don’t always explain myself well. I’m sensitive and I need patience but my love is real & I love hard 🥺💞
If the relationship ended and you noticed she didn't go looking for another man, didn't start going out every night, but instead started working out, taking care of herself, and distancing herself so she could rebuild herself, that means she truly loved you. Women who don't care move on fast. Women who loved for real pull back and focus on themselves. And yes, you let a very good woman slip away, one you won't replace by finding someone new.
just saw a TikTok where the lady was saying that, "sometimes the most thoughtful thing a man will ever do for you is make sure you don't spend the rest of your life with him" felt that to the core.
@ickmerald phone dry don’t mean unloved… it mean u finally stopped lettin random energy access ur peace. standards up, boundaries tight, n the noise gone. silence hit holy when u ain’t dealin with just anybody.
I’m not looking for pitty at all but I be questioning why my son .. why give him that battle for us .. but I’m still grateful because it could be so much worse ..