Gotta STAY CLEAR of folks who don't value the small sacrifices you make... like spending money you barely got, pulling up when you tired, giving advice, carrying their problems, or being the one who always checks in first. Some people only love the benefits, never the person. They'll use your energy just to go pour it into everybody but the one who's actually helping them.
Nobody has played me more than I’ve played myself. I saw the signs, felt the energy shift and still gave people the benefit of the doubt. I wasn’t confused, I just wanted to believe the best in them more than I trusted myself.
Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking i’m a bad person. I have my ways & i have my days but i’m solid and my love is real & genuine every step of the way.
Imagine fumbling someone who genuinely wanted nothing but the best for you, asking for nothing in return except your time, honesty, and a little reassurance. Wild how people sometimes lose something so genuine while searching for something “better.” 😭
I realized that when you’re a little too understanding, people slowly start becoming a little too comfortable overlooking your feelings. The more grace you give without boundaries, the easier it becomes for others to take your kindness for granted.
Reassurance? I love that sht, real bad 🥹😩😩🥰🥰🥰 I’ll never get tired of hearing “I love you,” or how much I mean to someone!! That feeling is unmatched, I swear 🫶🏽
going on dates.
private, but not secret.
only has eyes for me.
good communication.
acts of service.
a lil weirdo.
good sense of humor.
makes me happy.
quality time.
Texting your boo throughout the day & being able to count on someone to be there for you is so comforting. Especially if your day is going bad or if you're overwhelmed