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[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@essnsethorne @DisneeyDana That’s up to and including his intentions for saying he would explore Sol if they voted to keep her. That’s an assumption, just like the “reluctance,” you’re saying he responded with

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@essnsethorne @DisneeyDana First miscommunication is the word “explore.” He pulled her for a chat and told Sol he was highly interested. The other thing too is production clips shit bc when she asked him a follow up we never saw his response. So to your point, none of us know how it really was

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@Mimster_ @baaebardi @392mello @DisneeyDana Do you want to eat apples?
Well I mean only if they want to be eaten.., yes, but like I’m already halfway through this pear and it’s good so I don’t want to risk it rotting if I start eating apples.

NOT DIRECT omg. Answer yes or no to a yes or no question.

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@gurlbooo @uriuzirae @DisneeyDana I get this perspective. Her saying she was okay with it if she was not was dishonest. But him making contingencies and trying to make the message more palatable to spare her feelings caused him to mis out. That’s what happens when ppl do not have emotional boundaries.

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@baaebardi @Mimster_ @392mello @DisneeyDana I’m not saying anything about manipulation or character of her or KC, I’m saying he was not direct in speaking to her.

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@uriuzirae @DisneeyDana I def think he likes Aniya and I think he felt bad about wanting to explore Sol and hurting Aniya’s feelings. But now he regrets not doing it. He could have avoided all of that by just saying “yes,” to Aniya when she asked if he wanted to explore Sol and then doing it.

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@amillergic @_Tri_stan @DisneeyDana Congratulations!

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@essnsethorne @DisneeyDana He did not decide against pulling Sol. He did it twice and was going to pull her again “tomorrow,” as he said to her on the way out the door. During the vote, he told the men he would explore her. He clearly wanted to and that was what Aniya picked up on. “Yes.” was the answer.

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@amillergic @_Tri_stan @DisneeyDana It’s easy to be insulting when you’re learning. It’s harder to try another perspective. Good luck on your journey!

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@amillergic @_Tri_stan @DisneeyDana Yes or no questions get yes or no answers. Did you not learn that or…

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

Being “nice,” is a socially acceptable way to lie and get away with it.

You cannot say your intentions are upright toward someone if you are not honest with them.

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@amillergic @_Tri_stan @DisneeyDana You’re being intentionally obtuse. His yes came with contingencies. He could not know if Sol was interested without exploring. Exploring does not mean uncoupling. All that other shit he said was to make it more palatable so he wouldn’t feel bad. “Yes.” Was all he needed.

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@baaebardi @Mimster_ @392mello @DisneeyDana She did not need reassurance, she needed a direct answer to her very direct question. People keep calling her insecure but refusing to acknowledge that even if that was true, it’s also true that KC tailored his responses to her instead of being direct

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@amillergic @_Tri_stan @DisneeyDana My point is that he was not direct. What’s hard to understand about that? Exploring does not mean uncouple. All he had to do was say “yes.”

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@essnsethorne @DisneeyDana https://t.co/dWravbIVOa

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@DisneeyDana Y’all, there’s no way to know if it’s mutual without exploring… like I don’t get what y’all don’t get

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@DisneeyDana That whole “if it happens it happens, I mean I feel like if it’s mutual like if she wants to explore me, I want to explore her, yes… but if we don’t have a connections or vibe, there’s like no reason to end what we have going on.” Wtf does that even mean?

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@Mimster_ @392mello @DisneeyDana That means you don’t understand what a direct response looks like. I’m not insulting you. But he talked around the point instead of saying “yes I want to explore Sol, but I don’t want to uncouple.”

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@392mello @DisneeyDana Clear communication is also important. When asked a direct question, giving a direct response improves people’s capacity to comprehend

[Ribberto_Cavali @RibbertoCavali]

@essnsethorne @DisneeyDana Finding someone attractive and being highly interested in exploring them is not the same thing. He was direct with Sol
And with the guys and not direct with Aniya