@ryandriller Mine came off right before my senior prom. I instantly felt I went from nerd to hot. We now have perfect smiles, so I guess it was worth it. We definitely didn’t peak in high school/college. If our younger selves could’ve gotten a glimpse of our future selves. 😆
Would love to have had this with the cutie I met up w/after we had coffee yesterday. I hadn’t seen him since we slept together in February. He’s like a breath of fresh air seeing him. His patience makes me feral. He’s been single for 6 months so I get why he wants to stay friends
I went on the dumb apps again beginning of this month & it’s been disappointing to say the least( shocker). Meeting that cute guy I met last December was like meeting a unicorn. He did all the right things treating me well & got std tested like I asked him to without complaint.
Want this w/the cutie I broke my 2.5 yr abstinence journey back in February cuz he got std tested+we shared our results & he did everything leading up to that treating me well, is so needed. I had coffee w/him yesterday. He told me I was beautiful, but wants to stay just friends
@KozlowskiP99037@AndreaLetzring@i23yvi3 Because most men view love as owning a woman & having that dynamic be where the woman is made to be co dependent on the man in some way which is unhealthy creating an imbalance of power in the relationship. Love & partnership should be based on equal give & take & freedom.
Most men’s idea of love is actually this. It’s why at times a decade ago before I started working on healing my inner childhood wounds dating men used to feel like they wanted to have the upper hand in some way. This is why more & more, women are opting out of dating.
My coworker said, “A woman becomes difficult when she starts having too many options.” I asked him what he meant. He said, “If she knows she can leave, she won't tolerate much.” I said, “Isn't that a good thing?” He said, “Not for the man.” I asked, “So you want a woman to stay because she has no alternatives?” He said, “I want her to feel like she needs the relationship.” I just stared at him. Because that's the difference between wanting to be loved and wanting to have leverage. A woman who stays because she genuinely wants you is choosing you. A woman who stays because she has nowhere else to go is trapped. Those are not the same thing bruh.
I hate being jealous but alas today is officially 6 months since I last had sex. I’ve had plenty opportunities but the men “hooking onto my fishing line” have been trash. Thankfully I’m supposed to have coffee next week with guy I last had sex with but we’re just friends, though
Was set to meet with 6 dudes in the past week I met on an app. So far 2 ghosted. 3 are supposedly separated with young kids, and the one single dude wants to be fwb but still wants to hang out like were boyfriend and girlfriend… being a straight woman is not for the weak