A "One time in college" women is a less suitable wife than a prostitute/escort who fucked 30 men.
The former even if one boyfriend gave a 18 - 22 year old dork her body and heart for free, while you have to make commitments, financial obligations for her.
From market logic, you are investing more in the same seller for the product . So you have lesser value from the buyer's side.
While an escort atleast took money in exchange so her previous partners didnt hit for free. And she mostly gave sex not her heart (more important) so if you marry her, you still get a just exchange.
Another lesson of Sagria Sexonomics 101.
You can literally hypnotize yourself into success
Start by sitting or lying somewhere quiet, close your eyes, and take three slow breaths, exhaling longer than you inhale. Relax your body from feet to head, tensing each part for about 5 seconds then letting go.
Count down from 10 to 1, going deeper with each number. Then deepen it further, picture yourself going down, a staircase, a lift, sinking into water, one step deeper on each exhale. When you feel heavy, you're in.
Now the visualization, this is the main event. Pick one specific scene of the success already real, and step into it through your own eyes, not watching yourself.
You're closing the deal and shaking the hand. You're checking your account and seeing the number. You're walking into the room and everyone takes you seriously. Build it with detail, what you see, what you hear, what's around you.
Then load the feeling. Feel what you'd actually feel if it were real right now, the pride, the gratitude, the confidence. The scene plants the picture, the feeling is what makes your brain file it as real. A scene with no emotion does almost nothing.
Sit in that feeling as long as it stays strong, and while you're deep in it, press two fingers together. Every session. Soon those fingers alone bring the state back, before a meeting, a call, a decision.
Count up from 1 to 5, and with each number tell yourself you're coming up more awake and energized, on 5 open your eyes feeling sharp and refreshed.
Do it twice a day, right when you wake up and right before you fall asleep. In those minutes your brain slows into theta waves, that sleepy in-between state where the part of your mind that argues back and doubts is switched off, so whatever you tell yourself goes in deeper. Stick with the same scene for two to three weeks before judging it. Some people feel it right away, others need more time.
Indian women look incredibly beautiful and feminine doing these classical dance moves. Now compare that to the 'wanna-be cool,' ultra-cringe twerking in that video 🤢.
There is one weird thing I have noticed about the Indian job market. For some reason, the Indian salary ladder has a missing middle. You jump from Rs 25,000 survival jobs to Rs 1 lakh respectability with a huge dead zone in between. And that is the gap which creates immense pressure to fake prestige, fake stability, delay marriage, depend on parents for survival, and causes endless anxiety among educated urban workers.
The easiest way to stay mediocre is to keep your goals abstract and your days unexamined. Vague ambition lets you feel serious without forcing contact with serious work. The truth shows up in what you repeatedly do, not what you admire.