New heating system in place! PHEW FINALLY hehe <33
I want this covered so I can bring the engineer back to fit this for me 🤪
(because princess life should be easy peasy never freezy hehe 😌🫰🏽)
There’s an account on here that is so sweet and lovely, but I can’t follow her back because she’s literally the DOUBLE of my exes sister & I simply can’t take the chance 😂😭
I dealt with my “sub” as I deemed fit and in alignment with who I am.
I maintained a higher, softer standard.
Moved with grace, decorum & communicated firmly & clearly.
I made it clear that it wasn’t okay to speak and behave this way, as you can see in the screenshots, now he’s blocked.
HEADS UP MOOTS, this one feels he’s spoilt for choice with choosing his domme! 🤡💀
Context: He promised his work bonus and spoils etc and then totally disappeared. (SHOCKER, that old chestnut!)
Came back to me apologising, I graciously accepted his apology.
I asked ONCE, why he disappeared and was met with a brash rude response. I respected his boundary (as you can see in the receipts) and he further continued and I suggested a break from the convo for him to cool off and return calmer.
I checked in with him the day after, to be ignored and met with the same question echoed back to myself, as if I was the problem.
The voice notes are me further going out of my way (generously) to explain that I understood that English isn’t his first language and that I’m giving my opinion and perspective so we could improve the quality of the dynamic & point out that his response read as snippy and disrespectful.
The passive aggressiveness and disrespect here is APPALLING.
Clearly not a sub, clearly not into the kink he says he is.
I won’t tolerate being spoken to like this from ANYONE. Blocked.
And I advise my gorg moots to avoid interacting with this rude walking headache.🚫
(His pockets aren’t even remotely deep either btw)
Thank u, NEXT!! 😌💅🏽
Can we normalise the understanding that dominance takes on different forms?
Domination is a psychological game of chess..
Its knowing when to shout, when to soften and the types of words and tone you choose..
Its not a volume or berating someone into submission.
Everything has a time and place.
Dominance is an essence of who you are, it’s not a hat you put on or take off..
it’s not performative or false, if you can control the narrative and choose when and how to mould your sub..
You’re on the right path.
Il say it again, DOMINANCE ISNT DICTATED BY VOLUME OR BULLYING.
Dominance is also soft and patient, the power is knowing when and where to apply it.
So if you see me being soft and patient, know that it’s strategic and justified.
Thank you for coming to my ted talk. 💖