More than anyone, its the parents of the girls who die by murder or suicide in marital homes, who betray and fail her the most. They let her suffer and die in pain, ask her to ignore and adjust. The poor soul dies all alone and in pain. No point crying later.
@jasveer10 And then both the girl and the boy opt for forced marriages, which turn out to be disastrous. Parents of girl literally dump her. They are more bothered about the "chaar log" than the happiness of their own daughter. Seen many such cases.
@wordi25 My son left abroad for studies and now is working there. My daughter doesn't want to go for vacations anymore with only me and her father as she says "the chair beside me, the bed beside me is empty. Overall it feels incomplete and empty without bhaiya."
@drsunita02 Many grandparents are just not interested to bond with their grandchildren, as simple as that. Love is always showered by the elders first and many grandparents don't have that emotional connect. Parents or grandchildren are not at fault always.
@DealsDhamaka It all depends on the interest and equation of both set of grandparents. Not all grandparents are close to their grandchildren, be it paternal or maternal. Children only bond with the involved grandparents.
@gauravkheterpal Aren't you being too judgmental here? You are not in his shoes. When my father died, my mother did not do an elaborate shradhdh, instead did a small pooja and donated money to orphanage. So does that mean diminishing values? To each his own.
@coolfunnytshirt At least people get benefits of the taxes there, what about Indians who pay hefty taxes with no benefits whatsoever! My son works in Europe and Europeans are baffled when they learn that we have no social security in our country. Be honest, will you come back?
@Zaffar_Nama I used to accompany my kids for their PTM and be done in less 2 minutes. All I would ask was how their behavior was and where they needed improvement, that was all. Would see their marks and sign. No taking photos of their marks or long discussions.
Why is there is so much hypocrisy in your policies? When I canceled my booking I was charged a cancellation fee of 60/-. But when your drivers cancel the cab at the last moment what steps do you take? Do you give us any compensation for that?
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@blogchatter Hello..I am joining from Mumbai. Changed my parenting style more than a decade ago, thought from the child's perspective too. Learning was that one can break the generational dominating parenting pattern and be relaxed and raise great children.
@arpit_vermaniac That's exactly what my son said who is a fresher and has been giving interviews for European firms. They are involved and interested and are good listeners. They come across as more approachable.
@ThymeToBeBorn Never could I see my little babies crying themselves to sleep. Babies need to be held, comforted. Imagine you are tired and upset and helpless and no one cares! One fine day all kids grow up and you don't have to do all this.
@rimpy_sh I was the second daughter of my parents and my brother also has 2 daughters. The reaction of people remains unchanged though my second niece was born almost 4 decades after me. It's for us to bring the change else things will forever remain the same! Kudos to you..
@AaruMundhra Age has got nothing to do with divorce. Two people can drift apart or have differences at any age. A successful marriage is more about the equation and understanding between two people.
@ks_NotANiceGirl It won't change unless women themselves come out of this mindset. You try arguing with them and they will be like "aisa hi hota aaya hai" and keep serving quietly and eat the leftovers in the name of love. Women who don't do this are termed selfish!
@nuts2406 Upbringing is done by both the parents and its not just the mom's job to impart good values. Sons learn a lot by observing their dad's behavior and even dads impart good values to their sons. Blaming women for everything is not cool!
@chiragbarjatya Follow your instincts. Parenting is a hands-on experience. For the new moms, stop being hard on yourself and take care of yourself too. For new dads, be the equal parent. It's a new phase for both the parents, so be in sync.