Thats because your fursona is your little action figure/barbie and you can dress em up and do their hair or you give em the coolest guns and vehicles the world have ever seen
If I ever have a boyfriend, I'd want him to feel so secure in our relationship that he'll be able to cry infront of me and I'll be able to pull him into my arms and hold him close to me because beneath everything he'd still be my little boyo that I'd deeply care for,,,
I almost lost my job in the oilfield, a six figure a year job and almost lost it due to harassment and the company trying to do death by a thousand cuts escalating every minor infraction up to a write up to get rid of me until I went to HR over it…
I’d say it’s a pretty fucking major issue still
I do all the same work as everyone else, and in many instances more just to prove my self just to maintain my career
No one gives a fuck if you’re gay in the white collar side of things but, if you are a blue-collar tradesmen you are expected to be a certain way
And they will make your life a living hell if you don’t fit the mold of their expectations
I both love and hate my career path because of this
I am married to a man and I’m having to pretend like I’m married to a woman just to fucking survive in my industry
Trust me, I thought everything was gay friendly until I experienced genuine homophobia personally
I’m lucky to still be employed here