i feel sorry for women nowadays. most women aren’t loved passionately or treated right. they’re expected to do everything, yet receive very little in return. now i understand why so many are single by choice and difficult to approach
Imagine losing a woman who doesn't sleep around, doesn't go out, doesn't play games, knows what she wants, works hard for what she has, communicates clearly, knows her worth, but only wants you. Embarrassing.
start taking care of yourself as if you're taking care of someone you love. creating the best opportunities for them wanting them to succeed in life. getting enough sleep and eating healthy.
& watch what happens to yourself.
i think i owe myself an apology for being in spaces where i knew l wasn't wanted & appreciated but instead i stayed, for forcing broken connections & ships. i owe myself an apology for putting people who never appreciated me before myself, doubting myself.
Being an "understanding person" is the worst kind of thing. I repeat, worst. You have to understand people's situations, their problems, their traumas, but when it comes to you, you will scream alone. Absolutely alone.