This vacation and traveling culture that Black people are starting to characterize is getting out of hand. I be seeing people legit putting themselves in debt just so they can participate.
No savings, living paycheck to paycheck but traveling all the time.
Sis, we do the same thing. We just like to shift the blame to justify our behaviors. When the last time that man didn’t have to ask for a home cooked meal, cheeks, & some neck? That’s bare minimum.
I hate people that say if you follow your passion the money will follow. The only passion I have is to be free to do what I want so whatever job I gotta do to buy my freedom I’m doing it.
A pregnant woman in Fayetteville, NC was shot seven times by a gang trying to steal her car. She lost the child. Why isn't this a bigger news story? If the races were reversed, it would be.
You don’t have to aim to make millions, the sweet spot is having enough money to eat at your favorite restaurants without worrying bout the bill, putting your bills on auto pay, driving cars that don’t give you major issues, traveling to places you wanted to go, being able to make fun stupid purchases, etc
i have absolutely NO interest in being the only thing or person that makes my partner smile or happy. i have no interest in becoming their end all be all.
that breeds codependency, and a lack of freedom.