YouTubers be like “wake up at 4am and run, that’s alpha!” No, it’s not. Look at apex predators; they’re all lazy. Bears hibernate, lions sleep all day. You know who wakes up at 4am and runs? Squirrels.
This older car salesman at the dealership told me he was divorced, had no kids, and that his ex-wife was a model back in the day who didn’t want children because she didn’t want to ruin her figure. He had a sister, but she passed away. His parents have also passed away, and he doesn’t visit Chicago, his hometown, anymore because all his relatives are gone.
He was in his late 60s and had regrets about not having children, which also means no grandchildren or great grandchildren. He has no nieces or nephews. I stopped asking questions because I started to feel bad for him.
Children are a lot of work but it extends your family. I love being an aunty, a mom, and a sister, and I really can’t wait to be a grandma. I wouldn’t want to do life alone in my 60s.
in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you created.
Adulthood humbles you. It’ll turn you into a prayer warrior without you even noticing. As you grow, you start to understand that nothing in this life works without God!!
Y'all want the God of the Bible to be pro gay so bad and I think that's so odd. If you don't want to believe in what it actually says, then just stop claiming to be a believer rather than trying to make it say what you WANT it to say.