@ThisGospel_Hub The pastor already knows he’s talking nonsense, but the members are so brainwashed that they’ll defend anything he says without even stopping to think for themselves.
Bullshit!
There is something I want to say with regards to the man who betrayed his best friend by sleeping with his intended wife.
In our conversation, he said that the man and the lady broke up many time within a year.
And that it was his friend who was always going back to beg her.
Without making any excuses for him, I want to say that the reason the girl was bold enough to cheat on him with his best friend is partly because of that.
He repeatedly showed weakness and the inability to walk away from a relationship that clearly, the lady was being begged to remain in.
For some other men who are fond of behaving this way, it may not be your friend that she will sleep with, but be rest assured that the probability of her cheating on you will be high.
His best friend is not the only one that she's cheating with.
And truth is, she still is not expecting to be the wife of her man.
When he proposes, she may reject the proposal because she knows what is amidst.
If she accepts the proposal, then he is in for a long thing.
And that's when she will start to manipulate his best friend and will continue to sleep with him, too.
Just this morning, a man sent me a DM related to the story.
In his case, it was the wife of a very good customer of his.
The man so patronized his business and he made fortune from it.
But when his wife made passes at him, he turned her down.
He didn't tell her husband.
But he noticed that the man completely stopped coming to his shop and even patronizing him.
He knew why that happened but he decided to forget it and moved on, since his conscience was clear.
So here is what I will advise any man that may be unfortunate to find himself in similar situations.
Once you notice that the wife or girlfriend of someone that is close to you, or your customer in business is moving towards you, please try to get evidence of either chat messages, voice calls or voice recording.
Women hate rejection.
And when you reject their advances, they can flip it on you.
Not all men have the discernment or maturity to completely ignore you, or doubt their women's side of the story.
Should they confront you, you'll now be able to bring out your evidence and save yourself.
End.
Tinubu has formed a Yoruba Army using Sunday Igboho.
Is moving wealth and Industrializing the South West whilst leaving the rest of the country out.
Is piping gas from the East to the South West, mining Gold from the North whilst using the proceeds to fill their pockets; Repositioning Lagos as Capital of Nigeria.
Tinubu is preparing the South West for the division of Nigeria, with him his family and his cronies as overlords of the Yorubas.
Meanwhile, In the East, @CCSoludo@GovWike, @DaveUmahi and other South East politicians are deriding @PeterObi while their Otellectuals, join the same Tinubu and his cronies to blackmail and demonize Nnamdi Kanu. A people suffering the direct impact of Colonization.
A 25 year old young lady reached out this morning.
She said she came to validate something I said sometime ago.
"That if a man married his wife as a virgin, he shouldn’t be in a hurry to get her pregnant."
She said it is currently happening to one of her elder sisters.
I told her to go ahead.
This is her story.
Her immediate elder sister married as a virgin.
She met the man during her year one in the university.
The man was a businessman.
Shortly after they met, he sold everything and relocated abroad to look for greener pasture.
After spending 4 years abroad and getting his feet together, he came back and married her sister.
They are now 4 years in marriage.
No child.
The sister is still in Nigeria.
The husband is in Germany.
They are still making plans for her to join him, but it hasn’t been easy.
The man does not come home frequently.
Once or twice in a year.
According to her sister, since they got married they haven’t even had proper sex.
The husband came back first week of this month.
He travelled back on Sunday.
Last week, the sister called her.
They were gisting and laughing.
Then she said she wanted to ask something:
“Bia child of the world, this una sex thing is overrated oooo. I am not enjoying the sex and it’s painful.”
That was when she remembered what I said.
They are currently trying to have kids.
And the sister hasn’t even properly enjoyed sex.
While she was telling her what she read from my page, the sister also related another story.
A close friend they know.
She also married as a virgin.
Shortly after she got married, they only had sex twice and she got pregnant.
Twins.
The twins are already 1 year plus.
She has only allowed the husband to touch her twice, since then.
And it is when she is sleeping.
According to her, she is not feeling anything again.
This is why I keep saying it.
Do not rush a virgin wife into pregnancy.
Let her first know her body.
Let her first enjoy her husband.
If you jump into making babies immediately, sex can become duty.
Pain.
Pressure.
And later, avoidance.
A woman that has not enjoyed sex will not suddenly start craving it because she now has children.
Sometimes she will just endure it.
Or wait till she is asleep.
This is not to scare anybody.
It is to tell men to be patient with their wives.
Especially the ones that came to them as virgins.
Take your time.
Learn her body.
Let her learn yours.
Children will come.
But a dead bedroom can come first if you rush it.
AJD.
@jon_d_doe Just tell her that whatever happened between you guys should end there and nobody needs to hear about it.
But if you decide to tell your best friend, just know that the consequences could be serious. You need to be ready for whatever comes after that.
@jon_d_doe Mehn! How could you even do that to someone you call your best friend, after everything they’ve done for you? Kaiiii, you really messed up on this one.
Personally, I don’t think telling him is a good idea. But you need to end whatever it is you have going on with that girl.