For any women that need to hear this, there are loving men out there. There are men who will sit and listen to you while you talk about something that bothered you. There are men out there that will take accountability and apologize. Who can be aware of their behavior and how it affected you. Men that you can grow with. Men that will make you feel appreciated. You don't have to go through years of trauma with a man who doesn't know how to communicate and has no emotional intelligence. You are worthy of healthy love. And it is out there I promise you.
Never force relationships or conversations. If the effort isn’t mutual, let it go. People know exactly what they’re doing. If they wanted to match your energy, they would.
Start rewarding inconsistency with distance. Let them lose you because of their lack of effort.
Manipulation is when they always play the victim by blaming you for your reaction to their toxic behaviour but will never discuss their disrespct that triggered you..Respect first
The hardest pill to swallow is realizing that most people simply don’t care. They can hurt you deeply and then continue with their lives completely unaffected, without a second thought about what they did or how you’re feeling. It doesn’t matter if it’s a friend, a partner or family.
Life is already hard 💔 please choose someone who chooses you, not just in words, but in actions. Someone who's there for you, stays consistent, and makes you feel wanted, not just when they feel like it, but every day. ❤