Replace the ones who tell you 'just one more bottle' with those who say 'letโs go one more mile.'
Replace those who tell you about the latest club with those who know about the latest investment opportunities.
And remember: you too can start becoming that person.
If you can find someone you hang out and drink with every night,
you can also find someone who pushes you to the gym.
If you can find someone who sells you drugs,
you can also find someone who teaches you spirituality.
If you can find someone who wants you to eat junk food,
you can also find someone who teaches you and helps you prepare healthy food at home.
Start replacing people who bring chaos into your life with those who are used to discipline.
Men to ladies: You are so hard to impress, I honestly don't know what you want.
When did it become your obligation to impress another human being?.
since when did connection become performance?.
@jerr_rrej You don't need to spend time attending to a dead person's grave.
And if you loose your spouse and still sexually active or not there is nothing wrong if you find love again...
In a world where everybody mirrors each others, "if you dey for me, I dey for you", that kind of mundane mentality. That's why love, kindness, humility is transactional today....
Don't wait for anyone to show you love, be the first to initiate.
A degree is a tool, not a destination. It can open doors, but it also costs years of your life. The question isn't whether school is good, but whether you are trading your time for a future that actually belongs to you.
You only understand how heavy the weight is when you try to lift it yourself. We do not respect people just because they win. We respect them because we know exactly how much the winning hurt.
Nature resists emptiness; something will always fill the void. Choosing nothing doesn't mean you've avoided life's challenges. It just means you've left yourself open to being swayed by lesser influences.
If your life lacks a guiding principle, your desires will take turns controlling you. Lust might dominate for a time, followed by comfort, distraction, or the need for approval. What seems like freedom is merely an unchallenged reign.