You idolize social media couples, then act shocked when they break up... ‘They were perfect.’ Perfect reminder that you never know what happens when the camera’s off...
You chase validation on social media, not realizing how staged it is... how many retakes it took, and how different things are when the camera’s off...
@Gossh_mon This is amazing. I've recently restarted it but in dub this time as I've finished sub now awaiting the new arc(season 2). It seems like a whole new experience
But I’m not ignoring anyone. I just stopped overextending myself
for people who never did the same for me. It’s not coldness. It’s boundaries. And if my absence feels heavy, maybe my presence was doing more than they ever admitted.
I kept pouring into people who barely poured back. Calling people “friends” who never really saw me the same way. Making space for people who wouldn’t even make time for me.
I gave effort, I gave energy, I gave consistency, And most of the time, I got silence...
Others suddenly started trying to come around. Not because they missed me, but because they missed what I gave. They weren’t used to not having someone who checked in,
who cared, who showed up consistently. And now that I’ve stepped back, it feels to them like I’m ignoring them.
I don’t celebrate Valentine’s, but if you have a nice woman and you talking bout “#ValentinesDay a fi battyman,” that says more about you than the day. If I had a woman, I’d make the day special for her. it's about how you make her feel and she'll be really happy. Don't be mean