It's not always a situation of people changing. Many times it's just you finally getting to see another side of them you may have never seen or experienced before.
Positive self-talk goes a long way, mostly due to the power of the subconscious mind.
Additionally, the body records everything you think, feel, and vocalize, as well as react to them.
Mental science.
Woman was created before man. The umbilical cord is the proof.
Woman = XX
Man: XY
Y is an X missing the right leg = defect.
The original is always hated and despised in the world of sick man and his world.
We went from Goddess to bitch, hoe, slut, thot, skank, etc.
The disrespect of life started with the disrespect of the female—the sacred feminine, culminating with the disrespect of nature.
Because the female has fallen so far in the world of civilization, especially Western civilization, it’s challenging for many to see the female/woman in her proper light, in her proper state.
Education in the U.S. is primarily for employment purposes, not enlightenment purposes.
It’s dedicated to the labor market. K-12 is not to prepare you for life. It’s to prepare you for the job market. Plain and simple.
What is the greatest gift a man can give his son?
The answer is confidence. Confidence translates to all parts of his life. This includes sports and education, but it’s tricky.
Here’s what you need to keep in mind. At some point, your son will need to feel some criticism. So, the first term you have to familiarize him with is defensiveness.
Explain to him that his ego hates criticism. Explain to him that when the ego reacts to criticism, it immediately wants to defend itself. So, one will begin to form arguments when criticized.
But a man is one who listens without resistance.
Fully take in what is being said and sit with it without a reaction. Once your son can recognize when he becomes defensive, he’ll become impervious to attacks on his ego.
This is a hidden superpower.
Now, let’s discuss sports and education. Studies have shown that children who score below average in reading and math actually score low because they lack self-confidence. Therefore, the correlation between learning and confidence is uber high. One cannot learn if one thinks it is difficult to learn. So, frame everything as easy.
Teach him that hard equals new. The more time one spends with any subject matter, the easier it gets.
As far as sports are concerned, realize that every single mistake your son makes is your fault. Because much of sports is pure muscle memory. Your son will perform as well as he trains.
So, if you’re not spending time with him, or if you’re not getting him the proper training, expect him to keep making those mistakes.
Now, during a game, he’s going to make mistakes. Refrain from making negative comments or even highlighting his mistakes during a game. Focus on cheering for the good plays.
It is impossible to play a perfect game. Also, never criticize him directly after a loss. He’s already going through the emotions after a game, so change the subject to something more light.
Wait until the next day before you go over the game played, and remember to commend him for the things he did right. And above all else, make it apparent that no matter how well he performs, you will still always love him. The only thing you ask is that he tries his best.
Performance should not be rewarded. I’ll say that again. Great performance should not be rewarded. Effort should. Because with effort comes consistent performance. If you maintain his confidence, you’ll never have to worry about his performance in anything.
Happy Father’s Day!
💪🏾💪🏾 STRONG DAD JUNE DAY 19 💪🏾💪🏾
🤜🏾 CONFIDENCE AND COMPETENCE 🤛🏾
The meaning of a "Skill Pair" and the importance behind this particular Pair's development in your life as a Man.