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Mary Higgins Clark 🥹

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Born and raised by Nora Roberts, Sidney Sheldon, Danielle Steel, Mills and Booms historical romance, Harlequin romance and Goosebumps

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One thing I enjoyed about Aspire was how it kept pulling me outside my usual way of thinking. Every session, reflection and discussion added another layer. Happy to have completed the 2026 Aspire Leaders Program. Thank you
@aspire_leaders #AspireLeadersProgram

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Goshhh stop ittt

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Overlaps

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Ouuu let me watch the latest ep of Abbot elementary

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Sigh...I should sleep

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From “over my dead body” to “this was always part of the plan.”
Consistency bias is a wild thingg

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Friendly reminder: Finishing a movie you hate or a meal that’s mid just because you "already paid for it" is a trap.
The money is gone. Your time and peace of mind don't have to be. Cut your losses.

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Rejection letter lotun losi kolohun shanu

[A.Y.O @YusufAsunmogejo]

Hello Lola, I am a Muslim, and our spiritual tradition has a very deep approach to raising children. I want to share some tips from our scholars that will be beneficial to you regardless of your faith.

First of all, our theology teaches the concept of Fitrah. This means that every child is born with a pure heart. At six years old, she is not a criminal mastermind. She does not have a wicked soul.

If she doesn’t have all these, then what is happening? The truth is that she is just lacking impulse control and testing boundaries. By this, if you look at her as a manipulator, you will fight her. However, if you look at her as a pure soul making mistakes, you will be able to guide her.

Secondly, for every problem anyone faces today, it has been solved in history. The only problem is how to locate them.

A classical scholar named Al-Ghazali wrote about child psychology over 900 years ago in his famous book “Ihya Ulum al-Din.” In his section on disciplining children, he gave a practical rule I want you to adopt going forward.

He advised that parents should never push a child into a corner where they are forced to lie. When you ask a question you already know the answer to, her survival instinct kicks in. She cries and she lies to defend herself because she is scared of you. Stop interrogating her. Just look at her and state the fact. Say, I know you took this, and we are going to return it right now.

Again, another scholar and sociologist Ibn Khaldun addressed this exact behavior in his masterpiece titled: “Al-Muqaddimah.” He warned that when a child is raised with harsh punishment, they learn deceit, trickery, and lying to protect themselves. This is why she is covering her tracks and crying to manipulate you. The fear of a harsh reaction is making her a better liar.

Lola, do not attach a label to her. Do not ever call her a thief. If you attack her identity instead of her action, she will internalize it and grow into that dark label. Tell her the action is wrong but protect her dignity.

Make her return the item. Do not fall for the tears. Hold her hand, walk her back to wherever she took it from, and make her hand it back and apologize. The discomfort of returning a stolen item teaches a much better lesson than beating her will ever do.

Finally, I don’t know if you are a Muslim, but never underestimate the power of your own words. In our faith, we believe the prayer of a parent for a child goes straight to God without any barrier. Pray over her. Pray for her heart to be content and for her character to be straight.

Keep doing this consistently and the habit will break.

Allah knows best.

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I like watching shows where there's not a single good person

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@_teewo I didn't know you've seen it. I just sent it. Plenty is happeningggg

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@_teewo Hanger o😔

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Mikrokosmos 🥹🥹🥹
Longest timeee

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Animalss

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Swimmmm

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FYA🔥

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Aliensss

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Micdrop let's goo

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Butterrr