People take days to text back and expect me to do the same. No I did Communication skills as a whole course unit. I text back immediately, gwe you can keep with your bad manners thinking it is upscale 😂
If we’re in a relationship and I miss you, I will call you or text you. If we just finished talking now and two minutes later I start missing you again, I’ll still call or text you❤ If I want to see you, I’ll tell you. Why should expressing love feel like a crime? Why should you suppress your feelings just so you won’t look "too available"... "too easy" or "too attached"?
You love someone, but you have to pretend you don’t miss them too much. The person asks, "Do you miss me?" and you start acting tough. Why? If I genuinely like someone, I want to express it freely. I don’t want to start calculating emotions or playing manipulation games just to look less interested. A relationship is supposed to be one place where you can safely express how you feel without acting cold or pretending all the time.
This whole "don’t text first"... "don’t call too much"... "act unavailable" thing is honestly becoming too rampant😭
@katyakayy Marriage is basically 50% love and 50% knowing when to say “you’re right babe” 😭
Marriage is basically 50% love and 50% knowing when to say “you’re right babe” 😭
The funniest thing about love is that two people can really like each other and still act like strangers because nobody wants to look “too available.”
So instead of saying “I miss you,” people wait to see who texts first.
Instead of communicating, people start matching energy.
Instead of being honest about how they feel, they pretend to care less than they actually do.
Pride has ruined a lot of things that actually had potential.
Staying in love is harder if we’re being real.
Falling in love mostly happens when everything is still soft and exciting. You’re always texting, calling, checking up on each other and it feels effortless at that stage.
But staying in love after seeing each other’s flaws, after misunderstandings, after bad moods, stress and all the realities of life start showing up, that’s the difficult part.
Because love stops being just feelings at that point and becomes a choice too. A lot of people can fall in love, but not everybody knows how to stay, communicate, be patient and keep putting in effort when things are no longer perfect.
Nobody owes you closure.
some people will mess you over, go right to sleep, and wake up like nothing even happened. whole time you up thinking about what went wrong, what you could’ve did different, and why they did you like that. truth is, some people do not care enough to explain nothing. they got what they wanted, did what they did, and kept it moving.
If you miss your partner, tell them.
If you want to hear their voice, call them.
If you want to go out with them, tell them.
If you just want to talk, do it.
If you want to have sex, tell them.
If you're bored, reach out to them.
Stop being a nonchalant idiot.
Above all, love God.
i genuinely have no desire to be rich so i can buy a rolex or a Lamborghini.
i want to be rich so i can control my time and go to the gym at 3pm on a monday.
sit at a cafe and relax for an hour on a rainy afternoon.
so i can cook meals at home with fresh ingredients.
spend on my family and friends without worrying about a budget.
that's my idea of a rich life, not the fake consumerist idea shoved down my throat.