I think if my 31 year old self could tell my 25 year old self one thing it would be: social credit is SO important. Be on time. Be present. Ask about everyone. Wish everyone a happy birthday. Doesn’t matter if you’re not close. Wish them a happy birthday anyway.
accepting that you’re objectively weird and owning it is infinitely better than being constantly desperate to appear normal to people who don’t even matter to you
someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more
When I was like 23 I read this pretty simple book about Buddhism called “There Is Nothing Wrong With You”, the gist of which is this tweet - what if you loved yourself exactly as you are right now - and it legit changed my life. Brand new concept, legit revelatory.
i will teach all the shy, awkward, eccentric girls how to step into their most confident timeline. you have to be visible to activate your luck. luck favors people who are moving, people who are taking up space, people who are confident enough to keep on trying.
u guys dont understand how much of ur speaking style u lose if u are not having a human conversation for prolonged times, im so embarrassed at how much i fumbled my words trying to articulate basic thoughts & i could tell i sound like youtube shorts bec thats what i watch all day
Isso é o que eu sempre achei estranho sobre o papo de “não ter assunto” por não gostar das mesmas coisas
Uma das partes mais maneiras de amizades é entender a paixão sobre coisas que você não sabia absolutamente nada antes