I am in my soft era, comfortable with vulnerability, okay with asking for help, opening up my heart, setting healthy boundaries, surrounding myself with love and support. I am for all things that make life more beautiful and easy.
Your entire life will change once you stop pouring into cups that don't pour into yours. Family, friends, colleagues, and acquaintances included. It may sound harsh but you deserve to be treated as good as you treat others. You deserve people who show up for you. You are worthy.
Almighty. Help us to protect our good deeds. May we not be among those who pray, fast and give charity but curse, swear, gossip and backbite without batting an eyelid. Help us stay away from such behaviour. Aameen.
Don’t be fooled by social media. In real life, our peers are paying off debts, studying, submitting business proposals, buying property, taking courses, changing friends, making room for new hobbies, seeing therapists, hiring life coaches, applying for jobs, and praying often.
The Almighty puts different people in our lives for different reasons. No one is there by accident. Learn to identify the people He has placed in your life and be sensitive to the purpose they serve. Some won’t stay long. There is a time, place and purpose for everything.
My unsolicited advice: build a back room at home for privacy. Get a small car to move around. Save up for a deposit, transfer costs and bond registration costs for your own place. A reasonable partner who’s committed to you will understand this.
You can have the worst past couple of years, uJehovah avele in one year of your life and restore all the loses and what the locust has eaten previously. Hlala ethembeni while putting in the important hard work in background.
I hope you do take the time and moment to appreciate whoever supported you in your journey in whatever way, shape or form. Even if it’s a little gift nyana to say thank you.
Some people will keep revisiting your past. Let them. You live your life with integrity and humility. Let your life speak for itself. The Almighty knows what’s going on and that’s good enough.
Check yourself each time you start thinking about your past and feeling depressed. Check yourself each time you think of the future and feel anxious. Keep the peace in your heart. Live in the present. Thank the Almighty upon all conditions.
My solitude doesn’t depend on the presence or absence of people; on the contrary, I hate who steals my solitude without, in exchange, offering me true company.
@ramalokot Becoming clear that this was a hit gone wrong. Kelly was the mastermind, Fisokuhle organized the foot soldiers & Ncube pulled the trigger.
The rest are supporting casts.