El hecho de que Jan le dijera a JingJing que no pasaba nada, que iban repetir mil veces la escena si hacía falta hasta que saliera porque sabía que JingJing estaba muy estresada
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when i first watched hua lai tood i thought they were saying chocolate chocolate chocolate (jub loey jub loey jub loey) didnt look up the lyrics so i still thought it was this on day 2
Quiero hablar un poco de la reacción de Wine a la amenaza de Korn. Así que primero voy a repasar el proceso y desarrollo que ha tenido Wine sobre todo en estos últimos episodios.
Wine se nos presenta como alguien que es muy reservada, que casi no muestra otros lados de ella y a quien le cuesta confiar o abrirse a otras personas. Cuando se nos presentó su pasado con Korn nos enfocamos mucho en la parte del acoso, pero esto es el denotante de muchas más cosas. El acoso es la parte desagradable y la herida va más en que, en el momento que ella más necesitaba apoyo, quedó desprotegida, no le creían y no tuvo a nadie a quien recurrir sin ser culpabilizada o minimizada; por eso la forma de protegerse fue cerrarse en sí misma y llegó al punto de ni siquiera tener amigos, porque es un poco como "¿por qué tendría que abrirme si corro el riesgo de ser lastimada y abandonada otra vez?".
Ella poco a poco va bajando la guardia con Lal porque entiende que ella es diferente y que sus miedos nacen más de lo que ha vivido y no de que con Lal vaya a sufrir otra vez, sino más bien que puede ser su lugar seguro. Acá van dos momentos importantes:
- Cuando habla con Cheese, esta recibe el empujón que necesitaba, porque esta le hace ver que Lal está tan asustada como ella al arriesgarse a querer a alguien más, pero así como Lal tuvo el coraje de aceptar que quería estar con ella a pesar de ser lastimada en el proceso, Wine también podría ser valiente por ella.
- Cuando Wine le dice a Lal "¿Cómo se supone que voy a vivir si no te tengo, Lal?", acá vemos que el miedo de dejarse querer no es el mismo; pasó de tener miedo a ser lastimada a lo que podría pasar si todo algún día se acaba, y eso es lo que tiene el amor: estar con alguien puede ser vivir las cosas más bonitas y ser de las mejores sensaciones posibles, pero viene con el riesgo de sufrir una vez que todas esas cosas ya no estén.
Viendo todo lo anterior, puede ser un poco difícil de entender por qué Wine se dejó manipular de Korn, si ya había aceptado lo que sentía por Lal y ella estaba estaba bien con la idea de renunciar a su trabajo por ella. Acá pasa algo y es que sanar un trauma nunca es lineal, y en situaciones de miedo o amenaza es mucho más difícil saber cómo actuar o reaccionar porque las emociones no son racionales. Lo que estamos viendo no es la lógica de Wine, sino su miedo. Ella ya estaba sanando, pero el detonante de todo lo que le aterraba apareció nuevamente en su vida y esta vez amenazando lo que más le importa.
Siento que lo que hemos visto hasta el momento es congruente con todo lo que se nos ha contado de Wine, ella no es una mala persona ni tóxica, sino víctima de lo que ha tenido que vivir, es alguien que sigue aprendiendo y sanando, y más desde que dejó entrar a Lal en su vida.
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KP: “I was just sitting there watching them dance.”
Cizee: “She was sitting with P’Emi, the two of them just sitting there smiling.”
KP: “Then Namtan walked over and said, ‘P’, are you drunk or something? You’re wearing sunglasses and just sitting there smiling. You look so happy. Aren’t you going to get up and move around a bit?’” 😆
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🎤: Let's talk abt the #BBFanFest shows. I really have to compliment you, both shows were amazing. I was watching too. First, KapookCiize, I was surprised and wowed by your show.
🐰: Were you wowed bc it was two fast songs?
🎤: You performed very well. For Ciize, we already know that she's an artist, but Kapook, the reason you surprised me is bc you didn't drop in aura at all.
🐰: I'm a secret agent idol 😌
🎤: What did ppl say abt the show? Did you read any of the comments?
🐰: I saw a lot of ppl giving compliments. A lot of ppl were surprised by my performance, both the singing and dancing, but the person who always encouraged and pushed me to keep going is here (points to Ciize).
🐰: I can't let her lose face. I have to do my best. Another thing is, since it's a show as a pair, we have to do it together, we have to be equal. I didn't want Ciize to have to dance lighter than she usually does to accommodate me, bc otherwise the gap would look strange. I wanted to be able to reach her level, so it was motivation for me to want to do it, to be determined to reach it.
🎤: It really was amazing though. When you had the interview before, everyone was saying, "You'll have to stay tuned to Kapook. Her dancing is no joke." I thought that they might have been teasing you, but getting to see the actual show, you were amazing. I really admire you. You did a great job.
👥: 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
🦊: She really was no joke.
🎤: This year you did so great, next year you'll have to do even better. You can start practicing dancing from today 😆
🐰: Are you for real? Let me choose the song first.
🎤: How abt you, Ciize?
🎀: I've got to hand it to her. After the show ended, I scrolled through the hashtag and sent her all these links like, "See, phi? Everyone could see your dedication. You did an amazing job! Everyone is saying that you surprised them." I think she's amazing, she's really amazing.
🎤:"ดิ่งดาวน์ (Down)", that's the name of the song, right? Who chose it?
🐰: "ดิ่งดาวน์ (Down)" (points to Ciize).
🎀: 🙋🏻♀️
🎤: Whose song is it?
🎀: It's P'Allie's song.
🎤: Who?
🎀: Allie.
🎤: Allie...
🎀: BLACKCOBRA.
🎤: Ahh, okay. So you chose the song.
🎀: Actually, I had a lot of ideas for the song "ดิ่งดาวน์ (Down)" and I proposed a lot of them to P'Pook. And she's like, "Hoo..."
🐰: "For real? Is this too much? This is what you want?" But I did it.
🎤: And the water and everything?
🎀: She never complained. She just followed my suggestions. And I felt that water would work for this song. It was a show that we designed together, like, "How abt dancing on water?"
🐰: We designed it like "Side to Side" would be a dancing song, an upbeat, playful, funny, fun song, but for "ดิ่งดาวน์ (Down)", we wanted it to be dancing as a pair. We wanted it to be sexy and for there to be water.
🎤: But it was amazing, really amazing. This year, you did such a great job. Do you feel pressured for next year?
🐰: Next year I'm going to have fire!
🎀: This year was water 😆
🐰: Next year will be fire.
🎤: You'll dance on fire 😆
🐰: Yes.
🦊: A fire-eating show.
🐰: I'll spin fire batons, eat the flame, and blow 😆
🎀: Phi, you know that lion dance show (that Kapook mentioned during the BB Fan Fest promo)? Ppl are still asking for it.
🦊: Yeah, that you once said.
🎀: We'll owe the lion dance show for now. If we have a chance, maybe we'll do the lion dance to show you, everyone.