Nkem laka

political scientist /Importation coach/wholesaler of polo/Business consultant

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

When experienced men are talking, please listen to them.

Hear him saying that if he's convinced that she's a good girl and her mother is good, he should marry her regardless of her body count.

He even used himself as an example.

But small boys don't want to understand.

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

@Spicymind01 Them say cancer, una say depression, let it just be a joke please lord

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

@Paul_Uba_ @jon_d_doe Getting rid of the pregnancy at this point, don't you think it's would put a risk on the little girl's life?

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I recall when I first told women to start kissing the penis of thier men and say "thank you, you were so sweet", many women found it weird.

Or perhaps they love the idea but were pretending about it.

I don show una one evidence now say e dey work like magic.

These things may seem funny or too raw, but many of you won't understand how doing such things place you in the eyes of your men.

Men love to be pampered in a kingly way.

There are times you'd have sex with your man, and after he cums, he would be very tired and even lazy to go to the bathroom to wash up.

Use that moment to pamper him.

Go to the bathroom to get tissue or wet towel to wipe his dick clean and kiss it.

"That was so good honey, I enjoyed every moment. The way you were hitting it, I didn't want you to stop. Thank you honey".

He'll feel pampered, masculine and appreciated.

Then he can doze off while you go take care of yourself in bathroom.

Then you go to bed to lie beside him.

When you guys wake up, dress the bed.

If you have drawn "map of Africa" on the sheet, change it.

The more you consciously do this, the more his love and affection for you grow.

And so would his commitment.

Do you know why?

Many young men have not experienced this type of treatment.

They mostly imagine it.

Make it a reality for them and they'd be happy and see you differently.

If you're cohabiting with your man or you're spending the weekend with him.

Once he goes to take his shower, bring out one of his washed boxers and singlet and place them strategically on the bed where he would see them.

If he returns home and drops his boxers on the floor or just randomly drops it, pick it up and wash them or place them in the laundry basket.

"How was your day today honey? Were you able to accomplish your tasks today? I made you a delicious egusi soup, please have your shower, let me go and serve your dinner".

Then you the man.

When you see a lady treating you this way, do not say in your mind that she's pretending so that you can marry her.

Question you should ask yourself is this:

"If my wife treats me this way, won't I be happy?"

When your girlfriend or fiancée serves you food, say "thank you" to her even if you were the one that gave her money to prepare the meal.

When having sex with her, compliment her body. If her toto is smelling good, compliment it as you're digging it.

"I love how your vagina smells and tastes, give it to me baby. I love fucking you my love"

Say those things.

It would boost her self confidence and feel appreciated and valued.

I didn't say that you should go and moaning ooo.

That's a feminine behavior.

If toto too sweet you, keep calm and enjoy it.

You groan, you don't moan.

Don't always feel like you're a man and feel too big or proud to compliment and appreciate your woman.

Then once in a while, dash her money.

Not because you're paying her for sex, but because women love money.

It's how you give her that matters, not what you give her.

Start practicing these things and thank me later.

End.

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

@jon_d_doe I'm Rivers
Hausa or Igbo

[Nancy Isime @NancyIsime678]

As a man, learn to choose a woman that chooses you. Some of you men have a problem, you keep chasing women who are unsure about you, hoping effort will turn into desire. A woman who truly wants you will make time, show effort, and bring peace, not confusion. You won’t need to beg, impress, or constantly prove yourself. Mutual interest creates respect and stability.

Some men mistake tension for attraction and struggle for love. You over-give, over-text, over-spend, and over-think, slowly losing your confidence and self-respect. While you’re busy trying to be chosen, your focus drifts from your purpose. That dynamic drains your energy and puts her in control of your emotions, and no man wins there.

Choosing a woman who chooses you is a sign of maturity and strength. It allows you to lead without fear, protect your ambition, and grow without distraction. The right woman doesn’t slow you down or test your worth, she supports your mission and walks beside you while you build.

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

@jon_d_doee

[Talk2veee @talk2veee]

From Day 1 of marriage , one of my close friends started sending 250,000 every month to his parents.

No excuses. No delays.

Parents lived in a small town. Simple life. No demands.

8 years passed.24 million sent. My friend always thought, “At least they are comfortable.”

In 2024, his father passed away suddenly. While arranging documents, his mother handed him a bank passbook.

Balance: 29.5 million. Every everything he sent… was saved. Plus earned interest.

Inside the passbook, there was a small folded note.
“For your children’s future. – Papa”

My friend thought he was supporting them. They were silently building his safety net.
Moral:Parents never stop being parents.
#copied

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

If there's one thing i love about love then it is a very loud love🥹❤️ the love that fills the atmosphere both in and out, publicly and indoor, in presence and absence. The pure obsession of it, the baby part of it, the genuine love, desire, care, happiness and fulfillment.

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

@jon_d_doe I will give if I have, because life can happen. 9months is long time to prepare so its possible something happened for them not to be able to take care of Bill at that point.

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

@Tupaleno @Wizarab10 🤣🤣🤣

[Johnson Adams @AdamsJohnson8]

In relationship "I am fine" is usually the biggest lie.

"I am fine" is often less about honesty and more about self - protection. People say it when they don't feel saf¢ enough to explain what is really going on inside of them, or when they are tired of repeating themselves without feeling understood.

Sometimes I am used to saying it to avoid confl!cts, sometimes to avoid vulnerab!lity, at times it's said because the other person speaking has not fully named their own emotions yet.

In relationships, this phrase can quietly create distance. One partner hears "I am fine" and assumes there is nothing to address, while the other feels unseen and emotionally alone.

Over time, unspoken feelings don't disappear; they settle into resentment, withdrawal, or emotional fatigue.

This is not about blame. Many of us were never taught how to express discomfort without feeling dramatic, weak, or demanding.

Healthy relationships grow when emotional honesty is welcomed, not punished. That does not mean every feeling must turn into an argument. It means creating space where concerns can be shared without fear of dismissal or escalation.

Sometimes the most loving thing we can do is replace "I am fine" with "I don't know how to say this yet, but something is bothering me."

With your experience, what usually sits underneath "I am fine" when it shows up in your relationships?

[Danilton @Danysleek]

My wife, my wife, she has done a lot, but let me say this particular one.😄

I lost my job almost 5 years ago & after paying rent & spending on some other projects, I went flat broke.

My wife placed me on monthly allowance, was buying the food & sorting the bills at home.

She would send money to the joint account, my own account and when she wanted to buy things even with her own personal funds, she still gave me the unwavering respect; telling me before she spends on such.

She never disrespected me for once bacause I wasn’t able to provide financial covering, she never subtly passed a message of contempt, instead she covered me in my presence and absence and was still utterly submissive.

We would go out, she will give me the money or her ATM to pay as if the money came from me.

She gave me her laptop to start a program then and paid for what I needed pay for during the course.

She prayed, fasted and blessed me, she understood that we are partners, a unit and that when her king was down, she as the queen had to keep things running, she understood the assignment of a true queen in words and indeed.

There’s nothing I can’t do for her, except I don’t have it and even when I don’t have it, as soon as I get it, I do it, I will do more and will continue to do more for my Heaven’s Gem as the Lord bless me.💎❤️

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I want to say something to you single ladies above 25 but below 30.

But I know that you'll not listen.

You see all these single men above 35? Many of them are not serious.

I've said this before, and I'm saying it again.

These men have buried themselves in their jobs, lost touch of what it means to be in a committed relationship, & cannot give you the attention that you desire.

Men below 35 are far better.

Even if they're still trying to find their feet.

Check again...

Most married men got married before they were 35.

When you meet a young man of 28 to 34, to you, they may be acting "immature", but this is common amongst their age grade.

And it's not even as if they're truly immature. The problem is that you young ladies have been exposed to much older men; either in real life, or through social media.

I'll use myself as a example.

I'm in my 40s, inching to 50.

When some of you read from me, you subconsciously think that the younger men that you're meeting, should be thinking like me.

You're wrong.

When I was in my late 20s and 30s, I was like most of the men that you're meeting today; if not worse.

You read from much older and experienced men from social media, and start to imagine that your late 20s and early 30s men should be like us.

An opportunity that people like my lovely wife didn't have, when she was in 20s.

She didn't have the type of social media or internet exposure that you have today.

Men who want to be committed to you, are not mostly men who are in their late 30s.

They either do not have the time, emotional intelligence or the patience to date you properly.

And alot of them that have achieved some level of financial stability or career success, would be looking down on you.

Because most of you young ladies are just starting life.

A man who truly wants to build a family, be there for his wife and family, and be the main provider, will start early.

He will start small, but not empty.

His years of experience in marriage with you, will teach him many things.

And as both of you keep growing and waxing in it, you'd be noticing changes in his character, ways of thinking, and emotional intelligence.

You may not like what I have said, but I see single men above 35 as potential red flags.

Of course, there would be exceptions.

But it's always better to be with men who are not too far ahead of you in life and exposure.

Give younger men a chance.

Ignore their obvious imperfections, and watch them grow into maturity, and into men that you would be proud of.

I have given you this advise with all sincerity of purpose, and like a father.

If you don't want to listen now, you'll understand much later.

I hope you won't regret it.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

A sugar daddy is not the same with a sugar mommy.

Most sugar daddies will uplift you.

And most sugar mommies will destroy you.

A woman's money is not sweet to taste.

If she can show you her nakedness, she can show you her wickedness.

Especially a married sugar mommy.

End.

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

@realBigStanH What are the symptoms please

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

There’s this my colleague. She’s not Nigerian, but from another African country. Back home, she and her husband had big dreams of relocating to the UK. In fact, the dream was primarily hers.

But they didn’t have enough money, so they agreed the husband would go first, settle, then bring her and their daughter later. She had helped the husband looked for and applied a work in the UK.

He made it. Got to the UK. Settled in. After about a year, the woman told him it was time to start working on her and their child’s travel plans. But the man started dragging his feet.

She didn’t wait around. She hustled, got some money on her own, and moved to the UK as his dependent. The daughter was still back home. Her plan was to bring her too once things were stable.

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

@jon_d_doe 😂😂😂

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

If your partner is toxic, they are toxic. If your partner is abusive, they are abusive. If your partner is violent, they are violent. If your partner is highly neurotic, they are highly neurotic.

THEY ARE NOT DRAMATIC.

Adopting the language of pretence only serves to ease participation in it.

[Nkem laka @Royalfina]

@SlaywithAce If legal way isn’t working make una summons am for juju abeg.
Or get lawyers from a different state, since he buys his way in your place.