It’s crazy when you finally realize being alone might actually be the safest way to live. You get older and start accepting that maybe that “forever person” just isn’t out there. People too busy being selfish, chasing attention, stuck on exes, or still healing from wounds they never admit they got. Then you meet one that halfway wants you enough to keep you around, but not enough to build with you, and they play tug-of-war with your peace. We really live in a generation where being toxic is normalized and loyalty is rare. It’s sad when being single feels like the only way to protect your mind, your heart, and your peace. Relationships used to mean something now it’s lies, ego, and temporary vibes, and what hurts most... Knowing exactly what you bring to the table… but realizing nobody’s even built enough to sit down and eat with you. 🤌🏽👏🏽💯‼️
So many of you are losing yourselves trying to love people who don’t even love themselves. People who deep down don’t even like being in their own body, who don’t see anything valuable about themselves, who are shocked you even want them in the first place.
Un(fortunately) she no longer enjoys the bare minimum. She wants to be loved loudly. Take pictures randomly and show her off, be her biggest fan. Bring her flowers for no reason or occasion. Tell your friends and family about her.
She's done with that nonchalant stuff.
Someone congratulated me on something and I brushed it off with
“Congrats for what? 👀It’s no biggie”
and their reply was, “It’s nothing to you because you’ve had some good wins before. But to me, it’s a big deal.” I quickly repented quietly.
May we never commonise God's grace.
Yho guys uThixo mkhulu last year this time I was in a different state. And only God knows how grateful I am to be where I am ngoku. Soze ndimlibale uThixo