Some things I’ve noticed in the findom community.
One thing I’ve noticed about findom and sub accounts is that a lot of y’all will interact with subs posts you and hope you get money from them, but the moment they open up about struggling mentally, suddenly nobody has anything to say.
And when subs talk about something serious, some of y’all discredit them or disrespect them simply because they’re subs.
Some of y’all genuinely struggle to see subs as HUMAN BEINGS outside of their role. You need to learn when to turn off the “dominant, bitchy, I’m better than you” attitude and be reasonable, respectful.
Being a Domme doesn’t make you better than anyone else, and being a sub doesn’t make someone less deserving of respect. Some of Y’all need to do better.
Some conversations need to be had, and a lot of them are brought up by subs. But the moment a sub brings up a serious topic about the findom community, people are ready to argue or discredit them. Why is that?
(Just to be clear, I’m talking about serious conversations regarding the findom community as a whole, NOT personal dynamics between Dommes and subs.)