I love women who have personalities outside of relationships.
Tell me about your books.
Your weird obsession.
Your business.
Your music.
Your dreams.
I want to know YOU.
He had to ask them THREE TIMES how they think raping women affects the women they assault.
All three times they answered about how it would affect them. All three times.
“Hello my friend, I’m getting married & it’s a very small wedding, only family members are invited sef. Don’t worry I’ll send you pictures and everything, e hear?”
Me- aww congratulations, lemme know if you need my help with anything.
E no suppose hard at all, oshi len shey!
If your friends only find out about your marriage, relocation, travels or other major life changes after the fact, what kind of community are we actually building? This hyper-individualistic approach to relationships isn’t helping us. We’re becoming so obsessed with autonomy and protecting ourselves from hypothetical betrayal that we’re losing the intimacy, mutual care and sense of responsibility that make community possible.
You guys don’t want to tell your friends your travel plans, don’t want to let them know you’re getting married and somehow you’re still calling these people your friends. There’s a certain level of entitlement that is actually necessary in genuine friendships. If you believe your friends are monitoring spirits or witches who will somehow ruin your plans simply because they know about them before they happen, then perhaps they’re not really your friends. Please let us start using the word ACQUAINTANCE more.
@stellackanu1 My problem is that none of them made any reasonable move to stop this. They were just dragging the boy, no one was beating him.... Tụfiakwa
@Luneyralu@srkntnyldz Exactly... They are afraid of him. I know a family like that. They had better step up their parenting game because that child will hurt someone real bad soon
You are allowed to experience joy while things in your life are unresolved. If you postpone happiness until everything is perfect, you’ll be postponing it forever.