We moved from "Enjoy this for yourself" to "Let us send this to someone with a lot of followers so they can tell you they enjoy it and you will take their word for it"
This hun just showed up at my place with groceries . I feel bad for her because she is going all out for someone who doesn’t care about her. Being part of her karma and character development is a privilege that I dont take lightly. Its an honour 🙏🏽
Overextending yourself for people and making their emergencies your own emergency doesn’t make you more loved; it makes you more used. Trust me, they’d be fine without you. Being kind is powerful. Being kind without boundaries is exhausting.
things I've learned don't mean anything:
-sleeping together
-meeting their family
-no protection
-talking about the future
- calling for hours
-"I love you"