@the_man_that@enlightenbat@CrownDaygame There seems to be some cross purposes here.
Can guys over 40 fuck 20 yo girls? Yes.
Should they marry them? Nooo.
Should guys settle down & have kids? Only if they’ve always wanted them, not ‘I suppose I do!?’
Are guys who are over 40 & dating younger girls, ‘wrong’? Fuck off!
@DaysOfGame_com@2000Chip2000 You can get results but it’s not the default.
If I’m ’out on a limb’ where are all the dinner date LR’s?!! Lots of drinks ones but no dinner ones. Surely at least one ‘top guy’ would have some?
@DaysOfGame_com@2000Chip2000 The point here is that for the vast majority of guys (beginners, inter, advanced) drinks will give better results than dinner dates.
Yes, you can view them as the same thing but the social nuances are that drinks can lead to something whereas dinner is getting to know you.
@DaysOfGame_com@2000Chip2000 Ok, same guy takes every girl on an ice cream date; Summer, Winter… & has zero results & guys suggest to him to go for drinks instead as it may be seen as ‘juvenile’ to the girl/she may not be into ice cream. People eat ice cream, right, so ‘Top Guys’….
@DaysOfGame_com@2000Chip2000 Nope it’s the frame of dinner dates that girls have had/expected.
Based on your view then a guy who always takes girls to pro-wrestling events on a 1st dates with no luck, isn’t doing it right as ‘top guys can run pro-wrestling game as drinks/pro-wrestling is the same thing.
@DaysOfGame_com@2000Chip2000 It’s not the guy being transformed, it’s climbing out of the ‘typical dinner date’ box that she expects having had loads (if she’s attractive).
If there are guys in NY, London, Belgrade etc.. running awesome ‘dinner dates’ I’ve yet to hear about them.
@DaysOfGame_com@2000Chip2000 Had a dinner date recently but I understood the circumstances before (didn’t drink, didn’t like bars, foodie, massive ioi’s.,).
Doing it as default is going to cost you more missed opportunities due to the reasons I’ve mentioned.
@DaysOfGame_com@2000Chip2000 2/2 ‘Dinner date’immediately lumps you in with every provider/nice guy who’s invited her out before & regardless of how ‘alpha’ you are, your trying to climb out of that box during the date.
Throw in all the minuses; doesn’t like X cuisine, spills something..etc. & it’s a pain
@2000Chip2000@DaysOfGame_com Agree. I never suggest ‘going for dinner’ but if we’re having drinks & it’s going well & I’m hungry, I’ll suggest we grab something at the bar.
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@ScumBag3yur A lot will depend where you game (lot of countries the age thing is less of a factor), we’re you approach (culture spots like galleries, museums, festivals.. attract more mature appreciative girls) & how you react when they ask your age.
@BroodingSea Barca in July is just packed with families & tourists, so if you don’t want to game locals, then it may be good.
Mar Bella, up the coast is a cool spot.
@DynamiteDaygame Female nature.
When I coached, I had guys say some girl seemed keen but hadn’t replied & thought she wasn’t interested.
Girls aren’t like your bros who ping you back quick.
You’re a (hopefully) cool guy who got her number.
Family, friends, work/Uni all take priority over you.
@TucoDaygame@BroodingSea@angeldevenganza@CrownDaygame Also would never work.
Who judges this? They’d have to be impartial & would have to be there as well to ensure no set-ups, which would mean you’d need two guys (one with each).
Throw in the ‘all guys rate girls differently on the HB scale’ & it would fall apart real quick.
@TucoDaygame@BroodingSea@angeldevenganza@CrownDaygame .. or you can just realise that there are lots of attractive girls out there, accept that no one coach can teach every guy & enjoy travelling to places that make you feel alive, as you watch the sun set with a drink in your hand.
@2000Chip2000@5Androgenic@angeldevenganza It’s also going to drive guys into inceldom.
You shitmax the crap out of your face & then go walk around expecting girls to respond positively.
They don’t, so you decide that ‘all game is crap’ & bitch about women being sluts.
@Biohackdaygame You’ve answered your own question.
You need to flirt & tease otherwise you’re just friendzoning yourself; play to win rather than playing not to lose.
Would also mention logistics.
Pick somewhere near your place, in case the date goes REALLY well & you want to bounce her back.