daily reminder: if someone lets you call them names like ”wh0re” and agrees to you calling them ”worthless” etc during s*x, you have a responsibility to make sure they know you don’t mean any of it afterwards!!! after care is key!!!
abuse can happen in D/s dynamics. You should be able to:
- Use your safewords.
- Bring up concerns w/o consequences or fear of punishment.
- Express changes in interests.
- Have a say on actions that take place.
- Say no without being scared of losing them.
- Feel safe w them