Akhirnya aku selesai menulis ini, walau proses yang dilalui cukup panjang. Dipenuhi jeda, berjarak sementara, lalu menarik napas dan terkadang nangis dikit.
Semoga bisa membantu mengurai hal-hal yang barangkali juga sama.
Selamat membaca!
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Lagi riset materi soal trauma-trauma yang diturunkan seorang ibu ke anak perempuannya utk jadi bahan tulisan... terus sekarang malah pen nangis sendiri alias kayaknya w triggered deh,, awkowkoakowkwokwokwekodkandjwjw
The follow up question is: why do you think your writing is bad? What’s wrong with it?
If you can determine what is “wrong” with your writing, then there are solutions to that. And if you CAN’T identify what’s wrong the problem is, your first task is to do that.
Feel free to reply and I can give more targeted advice!
What if I lose the competition? Ya terus kenapa? What if my work doesn't get selected?So what? What if people think it's mediocre? What if I embarrass myself? What if it doesn't turn out the way I imagined? What if I'm not as good as I think I am?
So what? I'll still try anyway.
Not in the sense that failure has no consequences or that everyone can afford to take risks. But sometimes I get so caught up in the possibility of losing, being judged, or making something imperfect that I forget I can just try.
biang sumber masalah skrg itu ya jokowi.
scra kebijakan sbg presiden, gw setuju jokowi lbh baik drpd prabowo. no debat.
tapi jeleknya jokowi adalah buka kotak pandora yg slama ini dijaga, ya akhirnya kayak sekarang.
you reap what you sow.
mentri asbun? dimulai di era jokowi.
kenaikan BBM dll tanpa pengumuman? dimulai di era jokowi.
presiden ga punya hati nurani dan empati? dimulai di era jokowi (konpers tragedi kanjuruhan malah masih bisa cengar cengir)
ngakalin aturan/rubah aturan? dimulai di era jokowi.
anak dan mantu dijadiin pejabat publik (gubernur & walikota)? diimulai di era jokowi.
Same. Especially when the political climate is this unhealthy and destructive, it feels rage bait and deliberate distractions are everywhere. A reminder to be more mindful of what deserves our attention.
I fell for the bait of engagement farming and overreacted after reading replies to a post on my TL. The moment I realized I shouldn’t have responded, I deleted it. Engagement farming can seem tempting by deliberately posting provocative, extreme, or emotionally charged content with little concern for accuracy, nuance, or consequences to maximize likes, comments, shares, and interaction.
I should’ve done better.
@serigalabelacu Kak 😭😭 peluk dari jauhhh. Semoga sekarang aman terus ya kak... Sehat selalu, dipenuhi keberkahan dan kebahagiaan dalam hidupnya. Aamiin.
Saat masalahnya atau kesulitan tidak hilang, tapi kita punya mindset yang berbeda menghadapi masalah atau kesulitan yang tetap hadir itu.
Bukan masalahnya hilang tapi kitanya makin kuat, itulah keajaiban.
Ini menurutku: keajaiban yang Tuhan bisa buat pada manusia adalah saat manusia bisa menerima dan berdamai dengan apapun penderitaan yang Tuhan percayakan kepada kita.
(Aku tidak mengecilkan penderitaan siapapun ya, ini murni pengalaman spiritual ku pribadi).
real friendship is when you could ask them a question that would normally get you cancelled on twitter and they respond to you with their genuine thoughts on the subject instead of immediately assuming that you're a horrible person