Statistically 70% of black men in Canada are married or patterned with black women. Toronto is also the most multi cultural city in the world so you are likely to see some mixed couples. Let’s not create narratives based on anecdotal experiences
I’m at a point in my life where I pray to keep meeting the right people. People who genuinely want the best for me, hold me in high regard, add value in my life, prioritize me and add peace to my life.
One thing I've noticed about women is that many of us achieve incredible things and then immediately move on to the next goal without taking a moment to acknowledge how far we've come.
Sometimes, it's okay to pause and be proud of yourself.
We are so obsessed with dating and marrying financially stable partners in this generation that we forget to check if they are mentally and emotionally stable. If they're spiritually sound and have been raised well. If they know the value of family and peace!!!!!
I finally understand what Machiavelli meant when he said, “Never play fair in a game where others cheat.” It doesn’t mean become evil. It means stop being naive. Stop bringing honesty to people who study manipulation, stop giving access to people who weaponize closeness, and stop expecting clean hands from people who already showed you they’ll throw dirt. Sometimes wisdom is not revenge. Sometimes wisdom is learning the rules of the room before the room uses your goodness against you.
realizing you can't just labor your way into financial freedom is terrifying. hard work alone isn't enough anymore, there is a whole different system at play.