self-sabotage is also
• not asking for help
• rejecting praise
• isolating yourself when hurt
• saying "yes" to everything
• putting your needs on hold
• procrastinating on important tasks
• watching too much news
• trying to be perfect
@Ykmusky Hay un dicho muy popular que dice: niño malcriado encuentra padre y madre en la calle. Antes se acostumbraba a corregir a cualquier pendejo (niño mal educado) por eso respetaban a los mayores. Ahora los niños abusivos son aún peor con tanto permiso para portarse mal.
Things that are normalized in society that shouldn't be:
-Sexual harrassment/SA
-Pedophila
-Rapist talking points
-Racism
-LGBT+ phobia. Especially in any government
-Worker exploitation
-Child labor
-Ableism
-Puppy training NB POCs to disrespect black people
-Misogyny
Employee: So when I need one hour for my kid, rules are rules.
When the company needs free overtime, suddenly “extra commitment” is expected?
Manager: I’m just following what upper management wants.
Employee: You’re not a machine. You’re a person with a family too.
Manager: If I bend every rule, my own kids suffer.
Employee: Then stop asking other people’s kids to pay for yours.
Manager: …
Employee: Bring the same flexibility you demand from us… or stop pretending the rules only cut one way.
Employee: Can I leave an hour early on Friday? My kid’s school closes early.
Manager: What does the policy say?
Employee: Standard hours are 9 to 5. No early outs without prior approval.
Manager: Then no. Rules are rules.
Employee: It’s just one hour. A little flexibility won’t break anything.
Manager: I’m sorry. We have to stay consistent.
Employee: Understood.
Monday morning…
Manager: Why wasn’t the client proposal in my inbox by 8 a.m.?
Employee: Can I ask something?
Manager: Sure.
Employee: What does the policy say about working outside regular hours?
Manager: Officially nothing is required before 9. But sometimes people need to show a little extra commitment.