@cavakaggyreborn Why is he in the front. Why do people toaday to men who say they are women. Is it fear, sympathy, virtue signalling. Surely not appreciation of his talent
The state of Minnesota used CPS to take my child and put her into foster care because we wouldn’t affirm.
I refused to use a false name or wrong sex pronouns and it was always going to be over my dead body that any harm came to her physical body.
When my daughter finally desisted and we got unentangled from the abusive state was when she was finally able to reclaim her mental health, as I always knew would be the case.
I have spent the years since trying to wake people in this state up to the dangers of gender ideology, largely to no avail.
People don’t want to hear it. People assume I’m a bigot just for talking about it.
People called me abusive and right wing and all of the things.
The MN DHS was warned about this years ago, as were Amy Klobuchar, Tim Walz, Tina Smith, several Democratic and Republican state reps.
I tried to file reports against the CPS workers who affirmed my daughter and wasn’t taken seriously. They all knew, and they all ignored me.
Well yesterday, while they are all scrambling trying to cover their asses on what their political ideology has caused, fighting on line and via the news about who is to blame and whether it’s the guns or the mental illness, my daughter, who is now very comfortable in her female body and coming to terms with her same sex attraction, she is a girl, she knows she is a girl, she is just a girl who likes other girls, and she has let go of the delusion entirely.
We spent yesterday having the best day with friends at the state fair, we made good memories just living.
We had such a blast. We were able to do that because her father and I parented her through the identity crisis. We didn’t give in and let her be in control. She was a kid, what adult in their right mind lets kids run the show?
We told her no, we set limits and boundaries and expectations. We told her we loved her but we would not continue the lie that her teachers and therapists and everyone else told. We told her she was born a girl and will always be a girl. We affirmed her in reality. Don’t get me wrong, she was angry as hell at the time.
Now she is thankful, she understands we were trying to protect her.
Because of that, because we didn’t affirm and encourage her disassociation, we were able to have so much fun and make wonderful memories yesterday with no black cloud of false pretenses hanging over us.
I want parents in Minnesota to know how badly you are being lied to. Teachers and social workers do not know your child better than you. It is not healthy to affirm mental illness as identity. Doctors don’t know what the hell they are talking about when it comes to gender affirming care. The one thing they do know that they are not telling you is that it is impossible for your child to change sex. We are mammals. Please use your brains.
Not affirming is really really hard at first, and you will feel like a failure as your child rails against you. But then, something clicks, and they settle down. And then before you know it, they are happy and comfortable in their bodies again. And then you have wonderful days full of fun and making memories while the rest of the world obsesses about the worst aspects of the cult you just managed to save each other from.
The past few days have been surreal on many levels. Knowing I saved my daughter from a death cult and that we can still find so much joy together, while the rest of the world falls apart…this is what I want other parents to know.
You can parent your child through this, you don’t have to give in to the lie, you don’t have to feed the beast.
Be a parent, not a friend.
Say no.
And if/when the state comes knocking, fight back. They also don’t know what the fuck they are talking about,
There is joy and happiness after desistance, after the state attempts to destroy your family. It’s not always easy to find, but it’s there.
You don’t have to go along with any of it. Step up and start parenting again. It’s not your job to be their friend.
‘It’s the sheer, ineffable silliness of trans… If a man says he’s Napoleon, we all go “There, there”. But if a man says he’s a woman, we make it a protected characteristic. This is the catastrophe of the Equality Act’
David Starkey on The Brendan O’Neill Show:
@cavakaggyreborn People have spent time with Tim's. That's why they are critical. What science? Compassion isn't just say yes dear, what ever you want dear.
Now we have a huge ask, another fight, and yet more funds to raise. I understand that for many, this appears distasteful and constant. That ok, don’t leave us just scroll past this post.
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I never really understood how so many young girls could become victims of grooming gangs in the UK without anything being done. The numbers were just so insane it didn't make any sense.
Then I made a small effort to help the family of one of those girls get their story out. Now I understand it completely. These girls from poor White families are targeted for a reason. They have no voice. If they try to say anything the entire establishment comes crashing down on them. The perspective from the police, the media, and a large number of people in the UK is the migrants are always right and the little girls are in the wrong. That's their default position and they will do whatever they can to make sure the truth doesn't come out. Truly evil stuff.
@buckysthoughts@londoner_woman@hardakeep Those who call themselves "antifascists" are, in reality, the very fascists they claim to oppose. Their hypocrisy is undeniable, and their actions prove it. Thank you for making it so evident.